PART 97: It might be interesting to share how we pulled off living in Italy for part of the year. I will post some steps and what we are learning along the way. We love every minute of it, and what was once a dream is our life! We live in Tuscany in the Fall, then back again in the Spring, and in California for the rest of the time (in a previous blog, I explained why we live in Italy only part of the year). Step 1: As we explore areas in Italy, we are discovering some gems that are worth sharing. Some of these are well-known tourist magnets; others are lesser known but always amazing. This week let's explore being gay in Tuscany. Is the mentality here accepting? We will share some of our experiences. Some facts: Step 2: Some history In 2004, Tuscany became the first Italian region to ban discrimination against homosexuals in areas such as employment, education, public services, and accommodations. The city of Pisa hosted the first march opposing violence against homosexuals in 1979, known as Pisa79. In Pistoia, the first monument in Tuscany was erected in memory of the homosexual victims of Nazi extermination. The memorial, located in the parterre of Piazza San Francesco, was inaugurated in 2015. These and other events reflect the inclusive culture of the region. Our experiences: Step 3: I'm well beyond making excuses for who I am or how I live. However, I was also curious about how open-minded the community in the Tuscany area, where we were planning on moving to, was. After spending two years in Puglia, where gay people were everywhere and being gay wasn't an issue, we weren't so sure about this part of Italy. Step 4: It's important not to generalize; just because someone has a problem with gay people or any other group, it doesn't mean the whole town or region thinks that way. In fact, if I think back on the only times that I have been called a "faggot" on the street, it happened in New York City and Palm Springs! So, an incident does not represent a mentality, and I wanted to keep this in mind as we got to know the Monte Amiata region of Tuscany. Step 5: Our visit and our realtor Last year, when we were considering settling in the Monte Amiata area, I asked our realtor/friend if a gay couple like us would encounter any issues. He seemed surprised and replied, "It's the 21st century, isn't it? Nobody I know would have any issues with that." Step 6: Our priest It was during the first week of living in Arcidosso that I met our local priest, who oversees 3 or 4 local churches, including one on the street above our house. When I introduced myself as being from California, he asked me if I had a family - a wife and kids with me. "No, I have a partner," I replied. Without skipping a beat, he asked, "Do you think your partner would help carry the statue during the procession in a few weeks? You look like strong guys." Later, we ran into him on the street with another gay couple visiting from Palm Springs. "Tell them to move here, and tell your other friends to move here too," he said. Step 7: Our church lady Does every town have a church lady? We do. She lives a few houses down, attends church every day, visits her late husband's grave daily, and always takes time to chat when we pass each other in the neighborhood. She comes to our door to tell us local news, asks about the renovation of our house, and seemed sad when we told her we were leaving until September. It doesn't seem to matter to her in the least that we are a gay couple. Step 8: Everyday life We interact with many people in our community, including our realtor and their family and friends, our contractor and their friends, local shopkeepers, and others we frequently chat with. In our daily lives here in Tuscany, being a gay couple doesn't seem to be on anyone's radar. Step 9: Discos, bars and clubs My partner and I don't drink much and we have much life experience. Because of that, we no longer find going to discos, bars, or clubs appealing. It's like we've been there and done that. As a result, we haven't been seeking out these places, so I can't provide much firsthand information about what's out there. At this stage in our lives, we prefer spending time with friends over a good meal, going on a great hike with a group, or taking road trips with friends from our local area and California. Insights: In this blog, our reflections are based on our initial experiences in Monte Amiata, Tuscany. So far, being gay in Tuscany feels like having green eyes in Tuscany—people don't seem to notice, or if they do, they don't care. There is an open attitude, which we appreciate, and it adds to our sense of feeling at home here. I promise to write a follow-up blog on the same topic a year from now, based on more experiences in our little piece of paradise in Tuscany. More next time. SECOND EDITION NOW ON SALE FOR $2.99!  “She Seduced Me: A Love Affair with Rome.” https://a.co/d/4Bx0Eh3 .  Amazon Italy- my book “Lei mi ha sedotto. Una storia d'amore con Roma”: https://amzn.eu/d/13nuZCL .

PART 99: It might be interesting to share how we pulled off living in Italy for part of the year. I will post some steps and what we are learning along the way. We love every minute of it, and what was once a dream is our life! We live in Tuscany in the Fall, then back again in the Spring, and in California for the rest of the time (in a previous blog, I explained why we live in Italy only part of the year). Step 1: "Why don't we invite our local friends over for a Mexican dinner. We can make tacos and enchiladas," my partner suggested. Being from California, going out for Mexican food or making tacos at home is second nature for us. How would our experience be different in Italy? Come with us on our adventure. Step 2: The tortilla challenge. When we initially set out to hunt down ingredients for our dream dinner, the first task was to see if we could find soft corn and flour tortillas. We discovered that many supermarkets have a small section of Mexican ingredients. However, Most consisted of prepackaged taco seasoning, cans of refried beans, and hard, pre-formed corn tortillas; some had large, soft flour tortillas. We grabbed both types of tortillas but left the beans and spice since we had brought our Mexican seasonings from California. We needed soft corn tortillas for the enchiladas since flour tortilla enchiladas produce a slimy mess. So, we broadened our search for soft corn tortillas. After reaching out on social media, we eventually found "corn" tortillas. Large tortillas made of corn and flour were softer than typical corn tortillas. Nevertheless, they were the closest thing we could find, so we grabbed them. Step 3: Fresh ingredients. We needed onions, cheddar cheese, cilantro, and jalapeno peppers as fresh ingredients for tacos and enchiladas. Finding the onions was easy. Finding the cheddar cheese was a bit more complicated. We found "cheddar" at our supermarket. It looked like cheddar and smelled like cheddar, but it was more rubbery than the cheddar we are used to. Nevertheless, we bought it. For the cilantro and jalapeno, we went to our local grocer, whose shop carries just about everything. He said he would track them down for us and asked us to return in a few days, which we did. Upon returning a few days later, he shook his head. "I am so sorry," he said. "I cannot find them. But I have an idea. I will loan you my Metro card. You can pick up something for me and find your cilantro and peppers." Step 4: Our Metro adventure We visited a Metro store in Italy, similar to Costco, but only accessible to business owners and their employees. To gain entry, we had to show our card and a letter from our produce supplier. After a short wait, the staff let us in. We explored the aisles and found outdoor furniture, household items, bulk food items, and rows of refrigerated and frozen goods. We also stumbled upon a section with Mexican food, although the selection was similar to what we could find in our local supermarket. The highlight of our visit was discovering fresh cilantro and a box of jalapeno peppers in the produce area. We were thrilled with our findings and considered the trip worthwhile as we checked out and drove the 45 minutes back home. Step 5: Taco sauce and sour cream We bought tomato sauce at our local supermarket and used it as a base for making our enchilada sauce. We also found some mild taco sauce in a jar at the supermarket, but we prefer hot sauce. We bought it anyway, thinking we could still use it and enhance the flavor. Since sour cream could be challenging to find and we didn't want to make it from scratch, we opted for plain yogurt. Step 6: Ground beef We decided to make beef tacos and enchiladas. We decided to spice up the meat to make it the dominant flavor. We got good quality ground beef from our butcher and were ready to create our masterpiece. Step 7: Bringing it all together My partner enjoys cooking Mexican food, so he dedicated an afternoon to preparing for the 10 friends we had invited. We had bought avocados the day before, so we made a large bowl of guacamole, which turned out fantastic. Tortilla chips are readily available, so we snacked on chips and dip to keep us going during the preparation. Step 8: Drinks We had planned to make margaritas, but we ultimately decided that it would be too much to handle. Since our friends kept bugging us to bring something, we asked them to bring fizzy water and some Coronas with lime. Step 9: How it went Some of our local friends had tried Mexican food before, while others had not. We were hopeful that both newcomers and seasoned enthusiasts would enjoy the meal. It was a pleasant evening, so everyone gathered on the terrace to indulge in the guacamole while savoring the Coronas. We arranged a station for the tacos, with all the toppings, seasoned ground beef, and crispy taco shells. I am picky when it comes to Mexican food, but I have to say that the tacos turned out excellent. Everyone relished the mild spiciness, which was complemented by the diced tomatoes, shredded lettuce, and cheese. Our local friends who were new to Mexican food loved the enchiladas, but I found them too gooey. The corn tortillas, mixed with some flour, became somewhat slimy, creating a texture that didn't appeal to me. But I kept my mouth shut and let everyone enjoy their experience. Step 10: Dessert We brought some boxes of See's candies from California and served them for dessert. In California, there is no better chocolate confection than See's, and we expected our local Italian friends to feel the same way. "Have another one," I urged. "They are a bit too sweet," a local friend said. I was surprised. Too sweet? Then, I realized that cultural differences also influence taste. Sweets, cookies, and pastries in Italy have a different flavor profile than those we are used to, and the same goes for locals exposed to some of our flavors. What tastes perfect to us may be too sweet for others. Step 11: What we learned We learned that preparing a Mexican meal for friends in Italy can be a fun experience. Next time, if we can't find 100% soft corn tortillas, we will make tacos with hard shells and skip the enchiladas. We also need to find somewhere to grow our own cilantro and jalapenos! Thirdly, discovering and respecting cultural differences in tastes and flavors is part of the adventure of living in Italy! More next time. Now on sale for $2.99: My book is "Stories from Puglia: Two Californians in Southern Italy." Amazon US: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CRKMKPWF?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_X2WRQ3PTG2ZDD "AVF6GH Amazon Italy- my book "Lei mi ha sedotto. Una storia d'amore con Roma": https://amzn.eu/d/13nuZCL .

PART 101: It might be interesting to share how we pulled off living in Italy for part of the year. I will post some steps we took. We live in Italy for part of the year; we have just switched to Spring and Fall (rather than Summer and Winter). Step 1: As we explore sights in Italy, we discover some gems worth sharing. Some are well-known tourist magnets, and others are lesser-known but always amazing. Let's travel to Rome and explore the Vatican Museums at night. Step 2: Background. We want to use our home in Italy (Tuscany) as a base to explore as much of Italy and Europe as we can. We decided to visit Rome to experience the Vatican museums, but it was tourist season. Would the crowds make it impossible? Since I used to live in Rome, I have been to the Vatican Museums more than once, so I didn't need to see the whole collection again. "Wouldn't it be nice," I asked my friend in Rome, "to return to the museums and only focus on a few things?" He agreed. We knew that the museum is open at night during the summer and fall months, the crowds are fewer, the lighting is eerily wonderful, and the atmosphere is unique. So we pre-arranged our tickets, bypassed the line, and immediately went inside. Step 3: Sights. We had to decide what to focus on and what to skip at the museum. My friend was interested in the Etruscan collection, and I wanted to spend time with the Greco-Roman statues and the paintings (Pinacoteca). We started in Ancient Egypt but quickly walked through, dodged some small tourist groups, glanced at the collection of Assyrian artifacts, got lost, asked a guard for directions, and then decided to go to the "Braccio Nuovo," where larger statuary from ancient Rome is displayed. There were some tourist groups, but it was relatively quiet. Walking down the vast hall, we headed towards statues that caught our eye. A touching statue of "Silenus with Dionysus's child in his arms" beautifully captured the bond between man and child. We also stood under the "Augustus of Prima Porta," where the emperor was displayed as a strong, muscular military man (imperial propaganda), with his arm outstretched as if speaking to his soldiers. We also saw the bust of Hadrian and got into a discussion about whether he was handsome or not. The personification of the Nile from the Temple of Isis found in S. Maria sopra Minerva might be the most impressive statue in the wing. After admiring the 2,000-year-old mosaic floor we were standing on, we made our way to the Etruscan collection. Step 4: Etruscans. The collection's star is at the beginning: the 5th century BC Mars of Todi. It is one of the few bronze statues from the ancient world. The statue depicts a warrior influenced by Greek sculpture preparing to pour a libation. The inscription uses an ancient form of the Umbrian language. The statue is truly amazing. We then moved on to the various sarcophagi, made from stone to terra cotta; the figures were all reclining, symbolizing the Etruscan belief that death was a type of rest. It was astonishing to see the faces of those who lived thousands of years before us, hundreds of years before the founding of Rome, staring up at us. At a certain point, I turned to my friend and remarked, "We are the only ones here." It was true; other parts of the museum attract more tourists than the Etruscan collection. I wanted to spend my time on something other than the endless ancient vases in the adjoining rooms, so we quickly glanced at these and then resumed our quest. Step 5: Choices and highlights. At this point, we had to make some choices. Therefore, we decided to leave the Museum of Paintings for another time and go in search of sculpture. My favorite statue from the ancient world is the Laocoon, which we found in the Statues Courtyard. The Laocoon dates back to 40-50 BC and depicts Laocoon, a priest of Apollo for the city of Troy. Laocoon is warning the Trojans about bringing the wooden horse within the city's walls. Athena and Poseidon, who were against the Trojans, sent two serpents to stop Laocoon and his sons from preventing the catastrophe. I was able to get extremely close to the statue, something that is impossible during the day. From the front and then from the side, I saw the faces of Laocoon and his sons as the serpents wound around them and began pulling them into the sea. Expressions of agony and sadness are carved across their faces, together with the realization of destiny: that no matter how much they struggled, they could not prevent what the gods had decreed. It is a sad yet magnificent sculpture, portraying humanity as struggling against destiny. Step 6: The Raphael Rooms and Sistine Chapel. In my 25 years of teaching high school social studies I integrated art history into my World History courses. One memorable experience was discussing Raphael's "The School of Athens" with my students as part of our Renaissance unit. My friend and I stopped and admired the magnificent work for a few minutes until some loud tourists approached and broke the spell. So, we moved on to explore the former Papal apartments, where we marveled at the historical portrayal of the Papacy as both a worldly and spiritual power. In one frescoed room, the image of the Pope crowning a king captured the essence of that era. Upon entering the Sistine Chapel, we encountered some bustling crowds. After looking around, we decided to save a longer visit for another time. Step 7: Eating. We were hungry and hoped to visit a nice Bistrot in one of the museum's courtyards, but unfortunately, it was closed. Then, my friend suggested a great Mexican restaurant nearby, but when we called, they told us they were fully booked. As we were about to leave the museum area, I decided to ask one of the guards at the entrance for a recommendation. He directed us to a newer, less touristy restaurant. We followed his advice and enjoyed a delicious chicken dinner there. Insights. From this experience, we learned that visiting attractions at night or during off-peak hours, asking locals for recommendations, and avoiding crowds can significantly enhance one's experience in Rome. Despite not seeing as much at the Vatican museums as we had at other times, we had a more intimate experience, allowing us to truly appreciate the art. Overall, it was the best visit I've ever had. More next time. SECOND EDITION NOW ON SALE FOR $2.99!  “She Seduced Me: A Love Affair with Rome.” https://a.co/d/4Bx0Eh3 .  Amazon Italy- my book “Lei mi ha sedotto. Una storia d'amore con Roma”: https://amzn.eu/d/13nuZCL .

PART 102: It might be interesting to share how we pulled off living in Italy for part of the year. I will post some steps and what we are learning along the way. We love every minute of it, and what was once a dream is our life! We live in Tuscany in the Fall, then back again in the Spring, and in California for the rest of the time (in a previous blog, I explained why we live in Italy only part of the year). Step 1: As we explore areas and towns in Italy, we discover some gems worth sharing. Some are well-known tourist magnets, and others are lesser-known but always amazing. This week, let's explore specific pathways to learn Italian. Step 2: Background In our previous blogs, we delved into the process of learning Italian and the fundamental elements of language acquisition. As previously emphasized, consistency is the most crucial component. For instance, dedicating 15 minutes to studying Italian daily is more effective than cramming in 3-4 hours sporadically due to guilt. The fundamental components of learning Italian are: 1. Commitment to learning 2. Selecting a learning approach that aligns with one's learning style 3. Consistency 4. Applying what one learns into practice Today, let's concentrate on various learning approaches. Step 3: Learning styles In my 25 years of teaching, I've learned that everyone has unique learning styles. Some students are visual learners, others learn best through audio, and some are kinesthetic learners who prefer activities. Some students excel with projects, while others do better with quizzes or a combination. I've also noticed that some students thrive in group learning while others prefer to work independently. We all have our own learning styles, and sometimes learners, including adults, become frustrated not because they can't learn but because they are using a learning style that doesn't suit them. Through trial and error, I have discovered that understanding my own optimal learning style is crucial in choosing the best learning path. For example, I learn best in a classroom with assignments and deadlines. As much as I wish it were otherwise, that approach works best for me. Step 4: Structured in-person learning. I want to provide some examples of in-person learning opportunities near me in Southern California. These types of classes are available in many metropolitan areas; just do a Google search. Italian Cultural Institute: ​​ https://iiclosangeles.esteri.it/en/lingua-e-cultura/i-corsi-di-lingua/ Pasadena Community College: https://pasadena.edu/academics/divisions/english-languages-esl/languages/italian.php Glendale Community College: https://www.glendale.edu/academics/degree-certificate-programs/certificate-programs-gainful-employment/italian-language Santa Monica College: https://www.smc.edu/academics/academic-departments/modern-languages/italian.php Step 4: Structured online learning Structured online courses are "live" classes with assignments and deadlines, not self-paced. This type of course works better for me than self-paced, but everyone is different. Pasadena Language Center: https://pasadenalanguage.com/weekly-class-schedule.php Palomar College: https://www.palomar.edu/onlineeducation/italian/ University of Wisconsin: https://continuingstudies.wisc.edu/classes/italian-1/ Step 5: Self-Paced Online Learning Self-paced learning requires the learner to be disciplined and organized. Some excellent self-paced offerings are: Wellesley College: https://www1.wellesley.edu/italianonline Irvine Valley College: https://www.ed2go.com/ivccommunityed/online-courses/instant-italian/ University of New Hampshire: https://training.unh.edu/course/instant-italian-self-paced-tutorial Step 5: Individual tutoring I have tutored Italian to individuals and small groups for several years and'd like to share my experience. Tutoring can be effective when the learner is also enrolled in a systematic online or in-person course. In other words, tutoring works best when it is just one part of the learning process. In my experience as a tutor, those not simultaneously enrolled in a course do not make much progress. Adults who seek a tutor for Italian typically do so for leisure and are not inclined to do homework or assignments between tutoring sessions. As a result, the tutoring sessions often end up focusing on learning words and phrases rather than building a comprehensive understanding and practical use of the language. Based on my experience, I advise against hiring a tutor if you are not enrolled in an Italian course. Even if you are taking a course, consider whether a tutor is really necessary. Step 6: Self-study, including software learning Some independent learners thrive when they study on their own. Give them the right textbook or learning software; they are off and running. Some of the tools that I've found effective in this regard are: Rosetta Stone: I used Rosetta Stone in my classroom. Students engaged in interactive learning Monday through Thursday, and on Fridays, they used Rosetta Stone. Students enjoyed it, especially the activities in which they spoke using the microphone, and the software corrected their pronunciation. Like tutoring, Rosetta Stone can be an effective tool to supplement learning but can't replace a course or textbook. Textbooks: There are many great Italian textbooks out there. I can't claim to know which ones are better than others, but a few that I like for beginners include: 1. "Italian in 10 minutes a day" https://a.co/d/2lq7XXy  : I like this book because it is very visual and includes some fun activities. It's a great first step for beginners. 2. "Italian Made Simple" https://a.co/d/0SIlW83  : This book is designed for self-learners and delves deeper into Italian grammar compared to the previous book. 3. "Complete Italian Step-by-Step" https://a.co/d/6Ux8YCk  : This comprehensive self-learning book on Italian includes more grammar explanations and exercises. Step 7: Full immersion learning Full immersion learning involves living in an environment where only Italian is spoken and attending classes conducted in Italian. Various programs offer this type of experience, but the most renowned and respected ones are the courses provided at the University for Foreigners in Perugia. Upon enrollment, students take an entrance exam and are then grouped with others at the same language proficiency level. The university offers both distance and in-person courses, with an emphasis on in-person. More information can be found here: https://www.unistrapg.it/en/studying-at-unistrapg Italian courses last as little as four weeks up to a quarter of the semester. More information on course duration can be found here: https://www.unistrapg.it/en/studying-at-unistrapg/italian-language-and-culture-courses/corsi/italian-language-courses . Insights: Choosing a learning path can be as individual as assembling a fitness regimen. Am I a jogger, a weightlifter, or a walker? Which activities best align with my goals and aspirations? I hope that the learning path examples provided in this blog will assist others in creating their own path to learning the Italian language. More next time. SECOND EDITION NOW ON SALE FOR $2.99!  “She Seduced Me: A Love Affair with Rome.” https://a.co/d/4Bx0Eh3 .  Amazon Italy- my book “Lei mi ha sedotto. Una storia d'amore con Roma”: https://amzn.eu/d/13nuZCL .

PART: 103. It might be interesting to share how we pulled off living in Italy for part of the year. I will post some steps and what we are learning along the way. We love every minute of it, and what was once a dream is our life! We live in Tuscany in the Fall, then back again in the Spring, and in California for the rest of the time (in a previous blog, I explained why we live in Italy only part of the year). Step 1: As we explore areas in Italy, we are discovering some gems worth sharing. Some are well-known tourist magnets, and others are lesser-known but always amazing. Let's explore a personal topic this week: chasing down a spiritual connection in Italy. Step 2: Mentor Teacher Advice In the final years of my teaching career in Los Angeles, I mentored new educators. Due to the high attrition rate (up to 44% of teachers leave within the first 5 years), my school district established a program in which experienced teachers guided new teachers for two years. One piece of advice I always imparted to new teachers was to "live the type of life that you want your students to have." I emphasized this because it's easy for those in service-oriented professions (such as teachers, ministers, and social workers) to become so consumed by helping others that they neglect their own well-being. After witnessing the challenges my new teachers face and reflecting on my own experiences, I identified three levels of self-care crucial for effectiveness: physical, emotional, and spiritual. While these levels are interconnected, I want to specifically discuss the spiritual dimension in this blog. Step 3: "Spirituality" I understand that spirituality can mean different things to different people. I want to take some time to reflect on my own experience of spirituality and how that translates into our life in Italy. How do I find ways to nourish my spirit? How do I find peace of mind when I'm in turmoil? Where do I find a sense of meaning and purpose when things feel out of control? I will share some spiritual practices that work for me here in Italy. Step 4: Smart Feet Many years ago, I first came across the concept of having "smart feet'' at a 12-step meeting (Al Anon). I was dealing with a loved one's addiction and struggling to cope. Around the same time, a close friend unexpectedly passed away, and I found myself sinking into depression. Despite this, I continued attending meetings and hearing the message about "smart feet": "I cannot control what I feel, but I CAN control what I do." In my case, I felt like isolating myself, but I believed that wouldn't be good for me. So, I took contrary action and decided to have "smart feet": I reached out to my friends, sought counseling, and actively engaged in life rather than withdrawing. I didn't feel like doing any of it, but I knew I could make healthy choices regardless of my feelings. I am grateful that I was able to navigate through that period of depression and learned valuable lessons along the way. The concept of having "smart feet" has significantly impacted how I incorporate spirituality into my life. Instead of being only an internal, contemplative activity, my spiritual practices almost always involve physical movement and deliberate choices. Step 5: The Walk When I'm in California, I bike every evening after dinner. In Italy, I prefer walking because riding on cobblestones is difficult. The purpose of both activities is the same: taking a walk in the evening in Italy is a spiritual practice for me. During that time, I reflect on my day, set aside any worries or obsessions, and focus on what I'm thankful for. During my evening walks in town, I often take breaks to admire the scenery, explore historic churches, or simply gaze at the beautiful buildings and sky. Without this evening pause, I tend to get lost in my mental "to-do" lists, over-plan future events, or dwell on past mistakes. The evening walk (or ride) helps me pause and reconnect with my spirit, returning me to a place of tranquility. The stunning landscapes of Italy serve as incredible inspiration for my evening strolls. Step 6: Unlocked churches I visit churches in Italy for various reasons. Sometimes, I appreciate the art and culture, and other times, I explore historical tombs or monuments. Other times, I enter an unlocked church specifically to find the sanctuary candle, which allows me to sit, reflect, and express gratitude. Italy has plenty of unlocked churches, providing opportunities to escape the hustle and bustle of daily life and find a peaceful environment. Whether walking or exploring a new area, I sometimes seek out unlocked churches to rejuvenate my spirit. Step 7: Trekking Reconnecting with nature allows me to experience serenity and a connection with the divine. Driving through beautiful landscapes moves me less than trekking through a forest, up a hill, or along a cliff. When I'm not immersed in nature regularly, something is missing. Living next to Monte Amiata provides plenty of hiking opportunities. We went on a few hikes last summer, but the cold kept us indoors when we returned in the winter. I'm excited to return in the Fall to reconnect with nature on Monte Amiata. Step 8: Monastic spirituality I have a special connection to living monasteries. Something about the Gregorian chants, the monks, and the overall atmosphere makes me feel part of a different world. I always feel a unique sense of peace and tranquility when I visit a living monastery. When I say "living" monastery, I mean a monastery still populated by monks or nuns. I find these places more spiritually moving than abandoned monasteries, which are just historical monuments. In our area, we've visited the Abbey of Monte Oliveto Maggiore in Tuscany ( https://www.monteolivetomaggiore.it/  ) and the new monastery, still under construction, of Siloe near Grosseto ( http://www.monasterodisiloe.it/  ). Monte Oliveto is a fully functioning historical monastery with a beautiful abbey church, an organic farm, a store, a guest house, and a welcoming community of monks. The Gregorian chant services on weekends are incredibly moving. The grounds are also worth exploring, with forests, frescoes, vineyards, and wine tasting. The Siloe monastery is being created by a group of monks who were inspired to form a new community, detached from their surroundings yet connected to the modern world. The architecture reflects their inspiring vision. The monastery also has a small guesthouse available for visitors. Step 9: Setting Sundays apart My spirituality has evolved over the years, and I still like to set aside Sunday mornings to focus on that part of my life. If we do not go to Monte Oliveto, we usually drive to the ancient abbey of Sant'Antimo ( https://www.antimo.it/ ), where we participate in the service. There are only a few nuns there, in contrast to the thriving monastic community of the past. But with a history that stretches back to the time of Charlemagne and situated in a beautiful area of Tuscany, visiting Sant'Antimo is a great way to start our week. Since Sant'Antimo is in the Val d'Orcia, we usually continue our Sundays by hiking or driving to explore a new area before returning to our home in Arcidosso. Insights: Spirituality varies from person to person, and as we settle into our lives in Italy, I am exploring ways to nurture myself on all three levels: physical, emotional, and spiritual. Italy has so much to offer to nourish anyone's concept of spirituality. More next time. SECOND EDITION NOW ON SALE FOR $2.99!  “She Seduced Me: A Love Affair with Rome.” https://a.co/d/4Bx0Eh3 .  Amazon Italy- my book “Lei mi ha sedotto. Una storia d'amore con Roma”: https://amzn.eu/d/13nuZCL .

PART 104: It might be interesting to share how we pulled off living in Italy for part of the year. I will post some steps and what we are learning along the way. We love every minute of it, and what was once a dream is our life! We live in Tuscany in the Fall, then back again in the Spring, and in California for the rest of the time (in a previous blog, I explained why we live in Italy only part of the year). Step 1: As we explore areas in Italy, we are discovering some gems worth sharing. Some are well-known tourist magnets, and others are lesser-known but always amazing. This week let's explore some of the joys of living in Italy, even part-time! Step 2: Culture Living in Italy brings the joy of being part of American and European cultures. The more time we spend in Italy, the more I realize that things that I thought were absolutes are more flexible, people I believed fit into categories are more complex, and detaching from one's own culture, at least for part of the year, can give greater insight into what is important and what is not. In Italy, access to culture is easier than in our area in California. Visiting major museums, attending classical music concerts, and exploring historical sites is simple. We can jump in our car in Tuscany and drive to the neighboring town to experience these cultural offerings. Step 3: Experiential history I spent 25 wonderful years as a high school history teacher and absolutely loved it (most of the time). Some challenges, such as the politics of education and classroom management issues, could sometimes get in the way, but it was a great experience overall. One of the most rewarding aspects of teaching history was bringing the subject to life. I found that students were most engaged when they could experience history rather than just read about it. For instance, when we studied the French Revolution, I divided the class into 3 estates to simulate the social hierarchy of that time. The nobility were given complete freedom, the clergy had some restrictions, and the rest of the class, representing the peasants, had to follow orders from the other two groups. This simulation led to heated debates and disagreements, allowing us to empathize with the peasants' struggles during the French Revolution. In Italy, there are numerous opportunities to experience history. For example, during a weekend trip to Rome, we visited the Mithraeum underneath the Basilica of St. Clement's. Visiting St. Clement's felt like stepping into a time machine. The ground level houses a basilica dating back to 1100. While sitting and taking in the atmosphere, we reflected on the fact that services had been held at that altar for over 1,000 years. Afterward, we descended to the area of the 4th-century basilica, where we wandered through and admired the ancient frescoes. Further descent led us to the second-century Mithraeum, a place where soldiers and followers of Mithras held their secret ceremonies. We heard the sound of rushing water behind the wall, indicating an underground river. Though there were school children present, they soon left, and my partner and I found ourselves alone in that mysterious place. We discovered some seating carved into the rock just outside the Mithraeum and sat in that spot where Roman soldiers had once waited to enter the place of worship. It was a truly immersive experience where history came to life. Step 4: Meeting others who want a bigger life One of the unexpected joys of living in Italy is meeting others on similar journeys. The people we have met come from various backgrounds and ages, but they all share one common quality: the desire for a more fulfilling life. Those willing to take a risk for the kind of life they want, even outside their comfort zone and without knowing exactly how it will turn out, are some of the most interesting people. Whether they are retiring in Italy, starting a business, or living part-time, these individuals tend to have diverse interests and a sense of adventure. It's truly a delight to meet others living in Italy and share in some of their adventures. Some of our friends from Puglia also resided in Budapest; we flew up for a long weekend, and they showed us the city from a local point of view. It was amazing. Step 5: Using our home as a base We have had the goal of using our home in Italy as a launching point to explore the rest of Europe. This was difficult when we were located in Puglia due to its southern location, as we had to fly for international trips. However, now that we are in Tuscany, we find that more of Europe is easily accessible. This Fall, we plan to drive to the south of France and then continue to Lourdes. Next Spring, we are considering spending two weeks in another European city (we are still deciding on the destination). We are just beginning to use our home as a home base, and I will write more about it in the future. Step 6: Life becomes an adventure Life is short. I know this because my mother passed away when I was a child, and my closest friend passed away when he was 50 a few years ago. I want to live my life as an adventure. I could have kept putting it off until I made more money, had more security, or better understood what living in Italy entails. But life is short. That's why my partner and I decided to dive in and start living part-time in Italy, as we can only live there part-time. We love our routine in California, but we need more. We want life to be an adventure. With our lives split between Italy and California, it has become just that. More next time. 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PART 105: It might be interesting to share how we pulled off living in Italy for part of the year. I will post some steps and what we are learning along the way. We love every minute of it, and what was once a dream is our life! We live in Tuscany in the Fall and, then back again in the Spring, and in California for the rest of the time (in a previous blog I explained why we live in Italy only part of the year). Step 1: As we explore areas and towns in Italy, we discover some gems worth sharing. Some are well-known tourist magnets, and others are lesser-known but always amazing. This week, let's explore hiking in the Val d'Orcia. Step 2: History The Val d'Orcia is a beautiful countryside in southern Tuscany, bordered by Umbria on one side and the slopes of Mount Amiata on the other. It extends along the agricultural lands outside of Siena and is named after the Orcia River that runs through the area. One of the most photographed spots is the famous Val d'Orcia cypress trees near San Quirico d'Orcia. The area's gentle, cultivated hills are occasionally broken by gullies and by picturesque towns and villages such as Pienza (rebuilt as an "ideal town" in the 15th century under the patronage of Pope Pius II), Radicofani (home to the notorious brigand Ghino di Tacco) and Montalcino (the Brunello di Montalcino is counted among the most prestigious of Italian wines). The landscapes of the Val d'Orcia have been depicted in works of art, from Renaissance paintings to postcards today, and have been used in many films, including Gladiator. My partner and I have explored Tuscany by car several times, and we always go off the beaten path to see what we can discover. Recently, we have begun to hike the area, and the experience is more rewarding than driving. Step 3: Some great hikes There are many hiking opportunities in the Val d'Orcia area. Here are a few that we like. a) Rocca d'Orcia to Bagno Vignoni Start your hike at the top of the village of Rocca d'Orcia and make your way down to Bagno Vignoni. You can park at the parking lot just outside of town and then walk up into the medieval village. Along this path, you'll often find art displays. Continue to the fortress tower at the top of the hill to enjoy a beautiful view of the neighboring village of Castiglione d'Orcia. After exploring the village of Rocca d'Orcia, follow the path downhill toward Bagno Vignoni. The trail is well-marked, winds through vineyards, farmyards, and fields with stunning views. The walk is about 4 km downhill to the Orcia River. Upon crossing the river, the path leads to the bottom of the thermal springs that flow down from Bagno Vignoni. You'll pass a series of pools that get warmer the closer you get to their source, often with people swimming or soaking in them. Take some time to enjoy Bagno Vignoni, where you can visit cute shops, interesting restaurants, and the amazing Albergo Le Terme spa, offering thermal waters for a fee. The hike ends here. You can hike back up the hill to the parking lot or arrange for a taxi. b) Hiking Pienza Another great hike is in the hills surrounding Pienza. This easy hike begins at an organic sheep farm called Podere il Casale, which specializes in pecorino cheese. You can enjoy a great lunch at the restaurant, with its pecorino cheeses and other farm produce, before setting off for a trek to Pienza. The hike leads through the farm and down the fertile landscape surrounding the medieval village of Pienza. Part of the path follows the Via Francigena, the ancient pilgrimage between France and Rome. Poppies and wildflowers surround the path in the spring as farmers tend their fields and work the vines. This hike takes you through everything you would associate with Tuscany - winding lanes, tall cypress trees, beautiful villages, and many grape vines. The path continues through a valley pass with a few steep hills to trek up, but the stunning views of Pienza make it well worth it. Once the path leads into Pienza, the reward is one of the most beautiful hill towns in Tuscany. Beautiful shops, several restaurants and bars, and a lovely church await visitors. However, the greatest reward is the breathtaking views over the Val d'Orcia from Pienza. c) Circular walk between Pienza and the Cappella di Vitaleta, along the famous Gladiator road This is an easy path to follow, and reaching the iconic Cappella di Vitaleta is worth it. It feels like standing inside of a postcard. During the first part of the hike, you pass the winding scenic road where Russell Crowe returned home in "Gladiator." Visiting Pienza and then Pieve di Corsignano (right outside the town) is a must. The hike itself: Just inside Porta al Prato, the main street leads to Pienza's central square, Piazza Pio II. Take time to explore this 15th-century "perfect" Renaissance town, including the Piccolomini Palace, the Borgia Palace, and the cathedral with its pure Renaissance exterior and late Gothic-style interior. Take the street left of the Duomo, walk through the Porta al Santo, then turn right onto Via di Circonvallazione. An 11-minute walk leads to the Pieve di Corsignano. At this point, the asphalt path becomes gravel, and on the left, signs point to the Agriturismo Terrapille (the sign is sometimes hidden by a huge hybrid fig tree). Soon, the path becomes the famous Gladiator road where Ridley Scott filmed some iconic scenes from "Gladiator." After 6 km, the path continues down the valley to the famous chapel, Capella di Vitaleta, and the adjacent farmhouse. On the Via Santa Caterina, make a final stop at the UNESCO World Heritage sign and gaze at the beautiful panorama overlooking the trail and Monte Amiata. Step 5: More hikes: Resources https://www.eurotravelcoach.com/blog/two-great-hikes-in-val-dorcia-tuscany?format=amp https://poderesalicotto.com/en/2019/05/09/best-hiking-trails-in-the-val-dorcia/ https://www.alltrails.com/lists/val-d-orcia-and-pienza https://www.alltrails.com/italy/tuscany/san-quirico-d-orcia Two. Hikes from S Quirico: https://emotionschaser.com/2021/08/07/val-dorcia-discover-two-wonderful-hiking-trails-from-san-quirico-in-tuscany-italy/ Insights: Driving and hiking offer two distinct experiences. As we engage in both activities, we uncover hidden gems in Val d'Orcia that we never knew existed. Hiking reveals the little details: a rare viewpoint, a small flower, or a farmer tending to his field. More next time. 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P ART 106: It might be interesting to share how we pulled off living in Italy for part of the year. I will post some steps and what we are learning along the way. We love every minute of it, and what was once a dream is our life! We live in Tuscany in the Fall, then back again in the Spring, and in California for the rest of the time (in a previous blog, I explained why we live in Italy only part of the year). Step 1: As we explore areas and towns in Italy, we discover some gems worth sharing. Some are well-known tourist magnets, and others are lesser-known but always amazing. This week, I want to share an exciting event in Rome with you! Step 2: Why write? Teaching is my profession, and writing is my hobby. This separation allows me to write without feeling pressured to cater to market demands. Writing for the "market" involves conforming to current trends and creating content for profit. I write because stories come to me. These stories usually manifest as images, and I strive to capture them with the best words I can manage. The writing process is challenging, but finishing and seeing a book in print is immensely fulfilling. Positive feedback, whether through book sales, reader enjoyment, or comments, is the ultimate bonus! Step 3: The event In my recent blog, I discussed the historical libraries in Rome and highlighted that many offer open study areas for the public. Whenever I spend more than a few days in Rome, I make it a point to visit these libraries as they provide a peaceful and conducive environment for research and writing. My favorite historical library in Rome is the Vallicelliana Library, established in 1565 near Piazza Navona, one of my favorite areas in Rome. This library is located next to the Chiesa Nuova, and the most impressive part is the Borromini Hall, a majestic rectangular room. The room is filled with natural light from 16 windows and a balcony that overlooks Piazza della Chiesa Nuova, providing a wonderfully bright ambiance ( https://www.livetheworld.com/activities/italy/vallicelliana-library ). Recently, the library invited me to present the Italian version of my book "She Seduced Me: A Love Affair with Rome" ( https://a.co/d/iwsclKf  ). The Italian version is titled "Lei mi ha sedotto. Una storia d'amore con Roma" ( https://amzn.eu/d/0eFUMCHN  ). The presentation will be on September 11, 2024, at 17:00 (5 p.m.) in Piazza della Chiesa Nuova in Rome (see flyer in this blog).  Step 4: A big deal? I don't make any money from writing, as the little I earn (about $1 per copy sold) goes back into promoting my book. So, for me, the rewards of writing are not monetary, but rather: Satisfaction: I enjoy setting goals, working towards them, and achieving them. It gives me a sense of satisfaction in my work life, gym, or writing. Putting down a story that's been floating around in my mind, going through the painstaking process of editing the initial draft, refining it, finding a publisher, and seeing it released all add up to immense satisfaction and a sense of purpose and meaning, especially now that I am retired. Meeting interesting people: An unexpected benefit of writing is meeting some incredible people. Whether through this blog or the books I have published, I've met and befriended others who seek more out of life and are willing to take risks for their dreams. Amazing experiences: If someone had told me five years ago that I would be interviewed by Vatican Radio, I would have laughed in their face. If someone had told me I would be interviewed by a news program in Italy, I would have said they were lying. If someone had said I would be doing a public presentation of one of my books in the center of Rome, I would have said, "You're crazy!" Yet here we are. Step 5: The presentation I am passionate about teaching, so I want to ensure that this learning experience is engaging. To achieve this, I plan to use a Google Slides deck to make the presentation visually interesting and encourage audience interaction through questions. Drawing on my experience as an educator, I will intertwine stories from Rome with my personal history. Additionally, I aim to share examples of excellent teaching from my former professor of archeology, who provided enlightening insights about underground Rome. To enhance the presentation, I have invited the translator of my book to co-present with me. She has a unique perspective as a native Italian speaker and educator in Italian studies. Additionally, she has experience teaching in California, so she understands the culture and mindset there. After the presentation, I will open the floor to questions about the book's content and our experiences in the field of education in the United States. The entire presentation will be conducted in Italian, so I'm doing my best to prepare for it. Step 6: The gratitude I am honored to have the opportunity to present my book about Rome in the heart of Rome. It is definitely one of the most exciting moments in my writing career. I am grateful for the friendships, experiences, and cultural opportunities my writing journey has brought into my life. I don't know how many people will attend the event, but if you happen to be in Rome in September, I would be thrilled to see you there. More next time. SECOND EDITION NOW ON SALE FOR $2.99!  “She Seduced Me: A Love Affair with Rome.” https://a.co/d/4Bx0Eh3 .  Amazon Italy- my book “Lei mi ha sedotto. Una storia d'amore con Roma”: https://amzn.eu/d/13nuZCL .

PART 107: It might be interesting to share how we pulled off living in Italy for part of the year. I will post some steps and what we are learning along the way. We love every minute of it, and what was once a dream is our life! We live in Tuscany in the Fall, then back again in the Spring, and in California for the rest of the time (in a previous blog, I explained why we live in Italy only part of the year). Step 1: As we explore areas and towns in Italy, we discover some gems worth sharing. Some are well-known tourist magnets, and others are lesser-known but always amazing. This week, let's explore Ostia Antica. This is my adventure from a few weeks ago: I arrived shortly after the complex opened, around 8:45 in the morning. The first thing I noticed was that, besides the archaeologists working, maybe four of us were visiting that day. Ostia is off the tourist radar, offering a different type of experience compared to what one would have at Pompeii. Step 2: History. Ostia's location, close to the Tiber River for trade and near the valuable salt pans, made it an ideal city site. Legend suggests Ostia dates back to the 7th century BC, but archaeologists have found only remains from the 4th century BC. The city flourished between the late 1st and early 3rd centuries AD due to the construction and expansion of the maritime port, especially under Emperor Trajan. Ostia became Rome's main port, evidenced by the numerous warehouses and shops that still exist today. A typical Roman town had a forum, and the Ostia forum was built in the first century AD under Tiberius. In the 2nd and 3rd centuries AD, Ostia reached a population of around 100,000. With such a large population, various amenities were necessary. The city boasted a large theater, public baths, numerous taverns, inns, and even a firefighting service. In terms of religion, the cult of Mithras thrived, as indicated by the 18 Mithraea found in the city. Ostia is also home to the earliest synagogue discovered in Europe and the remains of a church commemorating the death of St. Monica, the mother of St. Augustine, who died in Ostia. Ostia continued to thrive until the 5th century, as evidenced by repairs to the baths, new constructions, and street repaving. However, Ostia's decline began after the Fall of the Roman Empire in 476 AD. As Rome's population shrank to 200,000 or less by 500 AD, Ostia also experienced a gradual decline. The city suffered a final blow during the naval battle of Ostia in 849 between Christians and Saracens, and the remaining inhabitants eventually abandoned the town. Step 3: Sights. The theater. The amphitheater in Ostia is one of the most impressive buildings in the city. It can seat 4,000 spectators and is located near the forum, making it a central part of the city. The theater was originally built during Augustus's reign and later expanded. It is one of the oldest brick theaters in the world. During my recent visit, the amphitheater was set up for production, with extra seating, a temporary stage, and theater lights. Although this setup detracted from the historical ambiance, I could still envision ancient plays being performed for the rapt audience of Ostians. I sat there, imagining the crowds' delight and the masked actors' drama. Behind the stage, three marble theatrical masks reflected the dramatic style of that time. The Thermopolium. The word "Thermopolium" refers to what we would call fast food today. In Ostia, there is a street window where customers could order food to go. The counter has recesses for food storage and amphorae of cheap wine. This Thermopolium in Ostia, dating back to the 3rd century, is one of the nicer ones I've seen. It has indoor seating and a beautifully painted menu displayed behind the counter. Most Thermopoliae in Ostia offered food options such as eggs, olives, turnips, lentils, meat, or fish, all seasoned with garum. Stepping into this café quickly transported me back to the ancient world; I could almost hear the lively conversations and the clatter of serving dishes. Take a few minutes to stop and listen! Baths of Neptune. I visited Ostia and saw the remains of some of the 26 different baths, but my favorite was Neptune's Baths. The complex is huge at 4,400 square meters and was built during Hadrian's reign in 139 AD. As I climbed the stairs beside the entrance, I was amazed to find four massive black and white mosaics on the top level. They depicted Neptune riding a chariot surrounded by marine animals, nymphs, and sea divinities. I also saw a mosaic of athletes in the palestra, including boxers with spiked gloves and wrestlers. Neptune's Baths also have an open-air gym surrounded by marble columns and a life-sized statue of Sabina, the wife of Hadrian, dressed as the goddess Ceres, which was found in the central area. The mosaics in the baths pulsate with life, and they are well worth the climb and further exploration. Mithraeum of Felicissimus. Sixteen Mithraea have been discovered in Ostia so far, indicating that the cult of Mithras, popular among Roman soldiers, was also embraced by the citizens there. However, due to the secretive nature of the Mithras cult, the Mithraeum are not conspicuous and require deliberate searching to be found. I found and visited the Mithraeum of Felicissimus and was glad to see it deserted. What is truly fascinating about this Mithraeum is the depiction of the stages through which initiates underwent a spiritual transformation within this belief system. While I won't delve into each specific stage here (I explore each step in my book "She Seduced Me: A Love Affair with Rome"), visiting this Mithraeum allowed me to make my own observations. The benches on each side evoked a sense of community, while the area where the altar once stood (now gone) was the focal point: a place for worship and emulation of Mithras' virtues. There was a connection to purification through blood; occasionally, an animal was sacrificed, and initiates would be marked with or dip their toe into the blood. The path of virtue was displayed on the floor for them to follow. It is a remarkable site and, in my opinion, signifies the human spirit's perpetual quest for meaning beyond the routines of everyday life. Step 4: Cool things. The best way to experience Ostia is to visit early in the day. When you have the archeological park to yourself, you can truly feel the connection with the ancient stones, frescoes, and monuments. There are two approaches to exploring Ostia: wandering aimlessly or pursuing a specific goal. I have tried both methods, and wandering can lead to pleasant surprises and unexpected discoveries. However, you might miss out on some of the site's hidden treasures. Another effective way to explore Ostia is by setting a specific goal. For instance, I visited to find as many Mithraea as possible. To prepare for this, I researched beforehand and used a guidebook to locate them. Although finding them without a guide is possible, having one can significantly shorten the search time. Insights: Visiting Ostia Antica was one of the summer's most rewarding experiences. It allowed me to connect with the ancient world, escape the crowds of tourists, and gain a deeper appreciation for the incredible civilization that existed in Italy. More next time. SECOND EDITION NOW ON SALE FOR $2.99!  “She Seduced Me: A Love Affair with Rome.” https://a.co/d/4Bx0Eh3 .  Amazon Italy- my book “Lei mi ha sedotto. Una storia d'amore con Roma”: https://amzn.eu/d/13nuZCL .

PART 108: It might be interesting to share how we pulled off living in Italy for part of the year. I will post some steps and what we are learning along the way. We love every minute of it, and what was once a dream is our life! We live in Tuscany in the Fall, then back again in the Spring, and in California for the rest of the time (in a previous blog, I explained why we live in Italy only part of the year). Step 1: As we explore areas in Italy, we are discovering some gems worth sharing. Some are well-known tourist magnets, and others are lesser-known but always amazing. This week, let's explore our return to life in Tuscany. Step 2: As you read this blog, we are currently in our car, driving from the Rome airport to our place in Tuscany. We lived in Puglia for about a year and a half before finding a house in Tuscany last September. We made an offer, purchased the house, and took possession of it in February of this year. We then spent several months renovating the house in Tuscany before returning to California in April. Now that most of the renovation is completed, what will be different as we return to Tuscany? Step 3: Transportation As we usually stay in Italy for about three months at a time, we have been avoiding typical daily rate car rental agencies as they can be too expensive. Initially, we used a car leasing company, Renault ( https://www.autoeurope.com/short-term-car-lease-europe/ ), which worked well for a few years. However, the prices eventually skyrocketed, and it was no longer a good deal. Through word of mouth in Puglia, we discovered a company that rents out used cars. Although this option sacrificed some reliability, the great rates made it worthwhile, and we used this company for a few stays. This time, we decided to try something different. While in Rome, we approached every second-tier car rental company at the central train station with the help of a local friend. We found that many offer off-season month-long rental packages for as little as 400 euros per month, including insurance. Since these packages start on October 1, we are doing a daily rate rental until then and then switch to the month-long rental until we leave in October. I will share an update on how it goes in a follow-up blog post. Step 4: Renovation versus stability We lived in our house in Tuscany during the winter while it was being renovated. We had no working shower, little hot water, and dust everywhere. Some days, we just wished to return to California. A few days before we left Italy in April, the bathrooms were completed, the new kitchen was installed, and the new furniture arrived. The house needs painting inside, and then it will be all done. We will be in Arcidosso later today and are looking forward to enjoying the house, a greater sense of stability, and not having to constantly worry about supplies, work completion, and timelines. In other words, this visit will have much less stress, if any. Step 5: Our first international road trip One of our goals is to use our house as a base to explore Europe, and we will go on our first international road trip. In October, we will jump in the car. Six hours later, we will be in Monaco in the south of France. We will continue to Nice for an overnight stay and then to Lourdes for a few days. We plan to circle back to Nice, meet my sister and brother-in-law, and spend a few days exploring the area. After that, we will drive south along the coast and stay in Liguria before returning to Monte Amiata. If it sounds like a fantastic adventure, imagine how I'm feeling! Yes, I will get a blog written on it once we complete the trip. Step 6: Visitors We are expecting our first visitors from abroad this Fall. A good friend from Oslo will stay with us, followed by family from California. Being able to share our incredible experience of living in Italy increases our sense of amazement. We keep looking at one another, asking, "How did this happen?" With visitors in town, we will probably stick to our regular routine: gym, breakfast at our favorite café, and a field trip to a new area or town. Step 7: Experience life as a local We are excited about experiencing local life this time. Feeling stable or enjoying the moment during our renovation project was challenging. We had a lot on our minds, with many errands and unexpected situations while renovating a 16th-century house. So, being able to wake up, calmly drink coffee, go to our local gym, greet our friends, have another coffee, and then get in the car to explore... all of that sounds heavenly. Insights: As we drive from Rome to our life in Tuscany, we look forward to a new chapter where we can feel more established, have a greater sense of belonging, and be willing to make this an adventure. More next time. SECOND EDITION NOW ON SALE FOR $2.99!  “She Seduced Me: A Love Affair with Rome.” https://a.co/d/4Bx0Eh3 .  Amazon Italy- my book “Lei mi ha sedotto. Una storia d'amore con Roma”: https://amzn.eu/d/13nuZCL .

PART 109: It might be interesting to share how we pulled off living in Italy for part of the year. I will post some steps and what we are learning along the way. We love every minute of it, and what was once a dream is our life! We live in Tuscany in the Fall, then back again in the Spring, and in California for the rest of the time (in a previous blog, I explained why we live in Italy only part of the year). Step 1: As we explore areas and towns in Italy, we discover some gems worth sharing. Some of these are well-known tourist magnets; others are lesser known but always amazing. This week's blog is about how travel influences my writing. This blog also marks the launch of the second edition of some of my travel-related books. They are all on sale at $2.99. Step 2: Background I never knew I could write. (I still don't think I can write well.) But when I was scheduled for after-school tutoring at my high school, and no students showed up, I had to fill the time productively. So, I started to write. That was over 15 years and 9 books ago. Recently, I've been revising some of my books for a second edition. Step 3: Travel and writing Traveling inspires me, living in Italy inspires me, meeting people who take risks to realize their dreams inspires me, and anyone who wants more than the 9-5 inspires me! When I write, a story "comes" to me. For example, while walking up the Acropolis in Athens one evening, I met a stray dog who followed me to the top. The next evening, the same thing happened with the same dog. So, I began to wonder what life might look like through that dog's eyes. Soon, a flood of images from the past and present filled my imagination. A story began to form, and I wrote it down as best I could. That was the beginning of "The Dog on the Acropolis." Other encounters, experiences, and adventures inspired other stories. I want to share some of them here, focusing on the recently published books as a second edition. Step 4: She Seduced Me: A Love Affair with Rome I vividly remember the moment in Rome when the idea for this book first came to me. I was in Trastevere, standing in a piazza, contemplating what sets Rome apart from other cities like Prague, Paris, and Vienna. Suddenly, it dawned on me: Rome is defined by its stories. I set out to uncover these stories by interviewing street performers, befriending archaeologists, and delving into the city's history at the library. I also drew from my own experiences in the city and intertwined them with the lives of historical figures such as Augustus, Nero, Caravaggio, and Livia. Additionally, I sought out expats, locals, and Roman shop owners, exploring even the most hidden corners of Rome to reveal its secrets. The result of my endeavors is this book, which offers readers an opportunity to comprehend Rome through the narratives that have shaped it throughout history. Writing this book was an adventure as I pushed myself out of my comfort zone to engage with strangers performing on the streets of Rome, learn from archaeologists about the tales beneath the city, and gain insights from locals on their unique perspectives, such as their ability to spot an American from far away. I am immensely proud of the end product and believe it offers a captivating perspective on Rome. Link Step 5: I am John, I am Paul: A Story of Two Soldiers in Ancient Rome I heard the story of 4th-century soldiers John and Paul during a trip to Rome. Their last recorded words to each other piqued my interest, prompting me to research their lives. This involved studying Latin documents, consulting with archaeologists, and spending hours at their excavated home on the Caelian Hill in Rome. After 8 years of research and writing, the result is a powerful and emotional book. The story astounded me as I uncovered the historical record. I've received a lot of emotional feedback about the book, both positive and negative, but the beautiful and haunting true story remains with me. Link Step 6: The Dog on the Acropolis The story came to me while I was on the Acropolis. It's both an animal story and a work of historical fiction. The story follows Draco, a dog living in present-day Athens on the Acropolis, and Daria, another dog who lived when the Parthenon was being built. The reader is drawn into present-day Athens and the lives of several humans working in the Plaka at the base of the Acropolis. Draco happens upon the scene, and these disconnected individuals begin to form bonds with one another and the dog. In the evening, Draco ascends the Acropolis to sleep on the steps of the Parthenon, where he dreams of his ancestors who lived there. Through his dreams, the reader is drawn into Ancient Greece and becomes a participant in the adventures of Daria, a dog belonging to a stone cutter, and his wife. The story gradually unfolds as humans and canines become transformed by one another. I enjoyed writing this book and learned a lot from the research I did to make it historically accurate. Link Step 7: Loving Hoping Believing I went through a period of intense emotional attachment, great joy, and tremendous loss. During that time, I found a poem in my imagination every day. So, I wrote them down, and the fruit of that intense period of my life is this book of poetry. Link Step 8: Lessons and Beliefs: Learning to Love “Lessons and Beliefs” is a collection of stories about healthy and unhealthy love and the building blocks of a lasting relationship. The “lessons” are derived from real life experiences which the author shares in each chapter. The book is travel related, since the events recounted take place in Rome, Naples, Santorini and of course, California. Link Step 9: Insights Stories bring vibrancy to life, and I aspire for my books to offer insight and joy to others. 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PART 112: It might be interesting to share how we pulled off living in Italy for part of the year. I will post some steps and what we are learning along the way. We love every minute of it, and what was once a dream is our life! We live in Tuscany in the Fall, then back again in the Spring, and in California for the rest of the time (in a previous blog, I explained why we live in Italy only part of the year). Step 1: As we explore areas in Italy, we discover some gems that are worth sharing. Some are well-known tourist magnets, and others are lesser-known but always amazing. This week, let's explore what has changed so far as we begin our third year of living in Italy. Step 2: Retirement and jumping in. I retired two years ago last July, and two weeks later, we began living in Italy. We decided to jump in rather than wait until we had everything figured out because life is short, and we wanted to realize our dream. We rented a place in Puglia for three months during our first year to test the waters. In our second year, we decided to lease the same place for 12 months, staying for 3 months at a time twice a year. However, during our second year living in Italy (Puglia), everything changed, and we decided to move to Tuscany. Step 3: Why Puglia? In previous blog posts, I discussed our initial move to Puglia, what we enjoyed, and why we eventually decided to leave. To sum up, we cherished the friendships we made in Puglia. The lifestyle reminded us of southern California, and we appreciated the welcoming atmosphere and stunning scenery, including beautiful beaches and a peaceful way of life. As our second year in Puglia unfolded, we started to feel that the region resembled southern California too much. After some introspection, we realized that we were more interested in the historical and cultural landmarks in the north rather than the picturesque beaches reminiscent of those in California. Consequently, at the end of our second year in Italy, we loaded up our van and set off for Tuscany. Step 4: Our first three months in Tuscany During the winter of our second year in Italy, we flew to Tuscany and closed on our house. We immediately started working on renovations with the help of a great contractor. However, living amid the renovation was challenging. Despite trying to do some sightseeing and enjoy field trips, the stress of managing materials, making renovation decisions, and putting the house together took a toll on us. By the end of our stay, we were ready to return home and take a break from Tuscany and from traveling for a while. Step 5: Back in California After completing most of the renovation project, we returned to California in April. Unfortunately, we didn't have much time to enjoy the house in Tuscany before leaving. We managed to have the kitchen and hot water heater installed a few days before departing, and we were able to get it basically furnished before leaving as well. Upon our return to California, whenever my partner mentioned a possible trip, I responded, "I don't want to think about traveling!" It was probably due to feeling a little burned out from living through a renovation in another country and lacking basic conveniences like a stove and hot water. However, as the weeks and months have passed, we find ourselves eagerly looking forward to our next three-month stint in Italy. The initial challenges of the renovation have faded, the healing process has taken place, and we are now ready for the next adventure. Step 6: Year 3 begins By the time this blog is posted, we will be in Italy, beginning our third year. The differences this time will include: - We will have a sense of stability from having a renovated house. - We will not have to think about renovation issues 24 hours a day. - We will have time to explore Tuscany and other parts of Italy. - We will take our first international road trip to France. - We will have our first visitors staying with us. - We will have more opportunities to spend time with our local friends in Italy. - We will be open to what our third year in Italy will reveal. - We will have the opportunity to relish the moment. Step 7: Update It is now the end of October, and we are deep into our third year in Italy. Completing the house renovations has brought us a sense of stability and joy. While we still have some projects to tackle, they are not urgent, and we don't let them disrupt our peace of mind. We have been exploring our area both on our own and with friends, and we are increasingly captivated by Italy's beauty, history, and culture, especially Tuscany. Recently, we spent a delightful day in Monticchiello, hiked in the Val d'Orcia, and experienced Gregorian chants at the Monastery of Oliveto. We also just returned from a road trip to France, where we visited Nice, Monaco, and Lourdes. It was incredible, and the drive was easy. I plan to write a blog post about those experiences. Our visitors will arrive on Friday, and our local friends have been reaching out to us. We've enjoyed a bonfire dinner and toured a 1,000-year-old abbey with them. We are seizing the moment and are eager to fully experience everything life in Italy offers. Insights: Living in Italy has been a journey of learning, understanding, adapting, and being open. We never thought we would end up in Tuscany, yet here we are. We never thought we would be living in Italy, for that matter, and yet it is our reality. I wonder what our third year here will bring! More next time. My new novel is on sale now for $2.99! 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