Our Italian Adventure: Leaving Puglia PART 76: It might be interesting to share how we pulled off living in Italy for part of the year. I will post some steps we took. We live in Italy in the Spring and back again in the Fall. Step 1: I never thought I would write the words "Leaving Puglia," but our sojourn in Italy unfolds in unexpected ways that keep getting better. We are closing one chapter in Puglia and opening a new chapter in Tuscany. But how did that happen? Step 2: Puglia beginnings. We had been talking about moving to Italy for about six years before we made the move. I retired in mid-June almost two years ago; on July 2, we started living in Puglia. As I explained in a previous blog, Puglia was the logical choice: We have local friends here. The combination of natural wonders and historical places is unique. Life is easy in southern Italy. In fact, for both of us, living in Italy or California has been seamless. Life has been so good and calm that we considered putting in an offer for a house in Nardó. Before making the offer, we sat down with our local Puglian friends and asked for their opinions. One of them made a comment that hit home. Step 3: A seed planted. "Are you sure you want to live in Puglia?" our friend asked. "Knowing you guys and your interests, I think further north in Italy would be a better fit. You guys are into history and culture, and you're not really interested in going to the beach all the time. Remember that our friendship doesn't depend on living in the same city." As soon as he made this comment, it resonated with both of us. Puglia has been great; our local friends have become an important part of our lives, the cultural monuments around us fascinate us, and the amazing sunsets and panoramas give us a sense of peace. But do we want more from our experience of living in Italy? Step 4: Discernment. In the seminary, the term "discernment" was used to indicate the comparison between outer events and one's inner feelings to discover one's path. So we began a path of discernment, asking ourselves why we sacrificed to come to Italy and what we are seeking from our experience. Before our move, I would long to be back in Italy, like a cultural hunger. I "need" to touch history, walk in the paths of emperors, step into the remains of an ancient cafe, and wander through museums of ancient art and sculpture. Even today, I long for it and can't wait until we return. While living in Puglia, we have taken full advantage of the region's cultural and historical heritage, whether it be Galatina, Otranto, Leuca, Bari, Alberobello, and beyond. We have been to these places multiple times. "What if we lived in an area," my partner asked recently, "rather than returning to the same church or painting or hilltop over and over again, we could go to Florence, or Pienza, or Assisi, or Siena or Rome on a whim? What if we could discover new areas? What if we lived in an area where more of Italy would be within our reach?" Step 5: Affordability. One of the great things about Puglia is its affordability, especially for housing. We are middle-class guys paying off student loans and keeping up with bills and our mortgage. I didn't think we could afford areas in the north. "There is an area in Tuscany where houses are as affordable as in Puglia," our local friend told us. We followed up on his advice and traveled to this area. He was right; we found a house, and it fits our budget. In a future post, I will describe the area of Tuscany that we discovered and are in the process of moving to. Step 6: Feelings. How do we feel about leaving Puglia? First, it doesn't feel like leaving. Puglia is the first chapter of a multi-part story, and our time in Puglia and our friends there will always be part of our lives. We are so grateful for the seamless beginning we have had in Puglia. Leaving Puglia feels like reading my favorite chapter in a book and wondering what will happen next. This chapter is excellent but is not meant to be the entire story, so we are excited to see how it unfolds. In future blogs, I will capture what steps we are taking, how life in Tuscany is unfolding, and what we are learning along the way. Insights. As we leave Puglia and begin the next chapter in Tuscany, our experience of living in Italy is becoming greater than our initial plans. It doesn't feel like we are leaving anything; it feels more like continuing the adventure. More next time. SECOND EDITION NOW ON SALE FOR $2.99!  “She Seduced Me: A Love Affair with Rome.” https://a.co/d/4Bx0Eh3 .  Amazon Italy- my book “Lei mi ha sedotto. Una storia d'amore con Roma”: https://amzn.eu/d/13nuZCL .

PART 77: It might be interesting to share how we pulled off living in Italy for part of the year. I will post some steps we took. We live in Italy in the Summer and then back again in the Winter, but we will soon be changing our stays to the Spring and Fall months. Step 1: In a previous blog post, I discussed how we decided to move from Puglia to Tuscany. We are grateful for the many chapters our time living in Italy is revealing. Since we are in the midst of that transition, what are we finding as we move to Tuscany? Step 2: The parts of Tuscany. It is easy to equate Tuscany with the Val d'Orcia, its iconic wheat fields, towering cypress, and incredible stone houses. Pienza, Montepulciano, and Castiglione d'Orcia are some of the towns that come to mind. Florence and Siena are also among the most beautiful cities in the region. Though drawn to this area because of its beauty, we never considered a move there because its real estate prices would blow our budget. Local friends are often the best source for information, and one of our friends in Puglia, for several years, has been urging us to visit the part of Tuscany of Monte Amiata. At 1,738 meters, the mountain, with its incredible forests, hosts many different sports activities, from skiing, snowboarding, mountain biking, trekking, picnicking, and camping. Besides these, the area is close to those cultural sites that Tuscany is known for. Finally, we listened to our Puglian friend; we flew to Pisa, rented a car, and headed to our destination. Our friend gave us a list of towns he suggested we explore. These included: Abbadia San Salvatore Arcidosso Castel del Piano Seggiano Santa Fiora Piancastagnaio We found an Airbnb in Abbadia San Salvatore and explored the area. We had only four days, so we needed to allow enough time to experience the vibe in each place while not spending too much time in one. Step 3: What we found. Our friend from Puglia promised us: "If you go, I know you will LOVE it!" His words were prophetic. As we made our way from town to town around Monte Amiata, we drove through dense beech forests that were so beautiful that we seemed to be in a fairy tale. It was challenging to compare California's pine and redwood forests to what we found on Monte Amiata; it is a different type of beauty—equally awe-inspiring. During our forest drive, my partner exclaimed, "This is so beautiful it is ridiculous!" I responded, using an expression I've heard from my high school students: "This is sick!" Lol. As we visited different towns, we were surprised at the different architecture and vibe each had. On paper, I liked Abbadia the most because of its larger population and sports facilities. But in person, I fell in love with Arcidosso, where the medieval center and modern town are harmonious. One morning, we went to Seggiano for breakfast and sat on the edge of the town overlooking the rolling Tuscan hills while sipping our coffees and munching on our fresh pastries. It was so beautiful that it also seemed unreal. The town is historical, small, and beautiful; for me, a great place to visit, but a bit small to live in for my taste. We visited the other towns on our friends list and stayed a night in Castel del Piano, but none quite "fit" like Arcidosso. Arcidosso kept drawing us back, and we returned to walk through its medieval streets and dine at an excellent cafe in the modern town. Step 4: Housing. After spending almost two years in Puglia, we came to Tuscany to explore the possibility of living there. But could we afford it? We found that housing in the Monte Amiata area was much less expensive than in other parts of Tuscany. During our exploratory visit, we decided to budget some time to look at some houses for sale and others for rent. Step 5: Deciding to buy. In a future blog, I will explore our decision to move from renters (in Puglia) to owners (in Tuscany) more fully. Here, I will say that we found a house in Arcidosso that struck my partner and me as "the one." We loved the house and the town as soon as we walked in and, in the few days there, began a friendship with some locals. It is hard to explain how this house seemed to draw us in and embrace us. The owner told us that he has been waiting to sell the house to the right people, having previously turned down two offers. The decision to buy rather than rent was organic; we explored renting and buying in the Monte Amiata area without clinging to either choice. So, we are taking the leap: our offer has been accepted, and now we are taking the steps to take full possession of the house. In a few weeks, we will return to Italy and will be in Tuscany to begin our new life in our 16th-century home in Arcidosso. Insights: Sometimes, we restrict ourselves by setting limitations based on incomplete knowledge or fear of taking risks. At one point, we never thought it would be possible to live in Tuscany. We believed it was too expensive, didn't know anyone there, and were too scared to take such a significant risk. However, we eventually started listening to others who recommended visiting Monte Amiata and investigating housing costs in the area. After experiencing the towns, we realized we were being led here and started saying "yes" to what was being revealed. As a result, a new chapter of our lives in Italy has begun. More next time. Now on sale for $2.99: My book is "Stories from Puglia: Two Californians in Southern Italy." Amazon US: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CRKMKPWF?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_X2WRQ3PTG2ZDD7AVF6GH And also, on Amazon Italy: https://www.amazon.it/gp/product/1913680649/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i0 .

PART 78: It might be interesting to share how we pulled off living in Italy for part of the year. I will post some steps we are taking and what we are learning along the way. We are loving every minute of it, and what was once a dream is now our life! We live in Tuscany in the Fall and then back again in the Spring, and in California fo r the rest of the time (in a previous blog I explained why we live in Italy only part of the year). Step 1: When we decided to live in Italy, we didn't have a grand plan or every detail worked out. We decided to step into the experience of living here and see what it would reveal. We had looked at houses for sale online, but since we didn't know the area well (Puglia), we decided to rent. When we visited during the Christmas holidays before our move, a local friend had just finished renovating his house near Nardo'. We knew we found our initial home when we stepped inside and saw the two bathrooms, modern kitchen, and sleek design. Step 2: Advantages of renting. We choose to move into our Italian life gradually rather than plunging in. So renting has the advantage of making a temporary commitment to a place. This is a positive because each town and area has a different flavor or vibe; some are more touristy, some are dead during the off-season, others have street life, and others don't. Some areas have many expats, others have none. These factors, and many others, are best revealed through experiencing life on the ground. After a year of renting, we found towns that we would like to live in and others that we would not; some looked great on paper (on the internet) but had a whole different look or feeling when we went to them. We slowly developed our criteria for what type of area or town we would like to live in. We made a one-year commitment to live in a town in Puglia, and the experience there has been incredible. But this first year and a half renting helped us clarify what we are looking for. Renting has also enabled us to reflect more on what we want out of our experience in Italy. Being from California and having experienced beach life there, we were looking for something different. We realized we wanted an active lifestyle and access to Italy's rich historical and cultural heritage. We were drawn to Tuscany and decided to explore housing there, both renting and buying. Ultimately, we decided to buy a place. Step 3: Why buy? We planned a trip to visit the Mount Amiata region of Tuscany (more on that in another blog); our local friends promised us that we would love it. We decided to explore the area to get a feel for it and look at housing for sale and rent. What we found in this area was what we were looking for in Italy: our desire for an active lifestyle could be fulfilled through the hiking/skiing/cycling on Amiata and the gyms and sports facilities in the area. Our cultural yearnings could find their answer in the proximity of Florence, Siena, Assisi, and Pienza. It didn't take us long to realize that this was the area we were destined for. We had contacts in the real estate world; with them, we visited some towns, saw some houses for sale, and discussed renting possibilities. Then we went to Arcidosso. Our friendly and professional realtor offered to show us a unique house for sale in the historical center. As we walked up the curving medieval streets, decked with flowers outside the front doors of the homes, it felt like we were walking into a fairytale. Stepping inside the 16th-century house, we were bowled over by its charm. But we didn't want to make any rash decisions. We would look at other towns and homes and explore the renting market. Step 4: The decision. It isn't easy to describe the difference between "forcing a solution" and being open to what is unfolding, but our decision to make an offer to purchase this house was more about acceptance of an opportunity instead of trying to manipulate a situation to make it go our way. We knew the limits of what we could afford and discussed this openly with the realtor. We also discussed practical challenges, such as wanting a second bathroom and if this would be possible, etc. So we put it all on the table and asked: could this work? We had both decided that if we got this house, it would be great, but if we didn't get it, it wasn't the one for us, and we would continue renting. We were at peace when we made our offer, whatever the outcome. When it was accepted, we were almost surprised. And grateful. The realtors and owners made our experience of buying a house in Italy smooth, beautiful, and positive. Moving from renting to buying a place in Italy was a natural step for us. Step 5: Advantages of owning. The advantages of owning a home in Italy include stability and belonging in an area we love. The ability to change the house to fit our needs, such as adding a second bathroom or swapping out the shower, is also a big plus. Becoming a more stable part of the community and committing to the area also figured into our decision to own. There are other advantages of owning rather than renting. Can you think of any? Add your ideas in the comments. Step 6: Connections. Relationships are essential to us; in fact, we started in Puglia primarily influenced by our friendships in the area. When we came to the Mount Amiata area, we felt welcomed and connected with our realtors and their families and friends. We realized that our time in Tuscany would be spent enjoying beautiful panoramas and historical monuments and cultivating friendships with those around us. Insights. Beginning life in Italy, even if for part of the year, can feel intimidating, especially if one feels like they have to buy a place before moving here. But it doesn't have to be like that. In the classroom, my students sometimes felt intimidated by a project they had to complete; it seemed so big that they couldn't even get started. I gradually learned how to "chunk" it, breaking the project into small components that we could focus on that day. After completing six or seven components, my students could cut them out, paste them on a poster board, and have a presentation on World War II, which they never thought they could do. Our experience in Italy is like this. We like "chunking" our journey here. It makes what once seemed impossible a reality. More next time. My book is "Stories from Puglia: Two Californians in Southern Italy." On sale for $2.99. Amazon US: https://a.co/d/iXetAju .  And also, on Amazon Italy: https://www.amazon.it/gp/product/1913680649/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i0 .

PART 77: It might be interesting to share how we pulled off living in Italy for part of the year. I will post some steps we took. We live in Italy in the Spring and back again in the Fall. Step 1: The road from living in Puglia to establishing a new life in Tuscany is happening organically, and we would like to trace some of these steps with you. Step 2: Evolving Friendships Although we imagined that Puglia would be our Italian home for life, we were open to what the experience of living in Italy would reveal. And during our second year, it revealed a lot. We chose Puglia as our home primarily because of our local friendships. We decided to build on those relationships we had already established from previous visits. These friendships have been and still are one of the most rewarding aspects of living (part-time) in Italy. We realized a few things about our local friendships during our second year in Puglia. Most of our Puglian friends were busy during the summer of our second year. Some had travel plans, others worked in the north, and others had demanding jobs. So, we saw very little of some of our friends during our second summer in Puglia, which made us reflect on our commitment to Puglia. We spoke with our friends about these changes and realized that maintaining and growing friendships is not dependent on geography; whether we live in the same area as a friend does not define friendship. We also realized that we could not come to Puglia and expect friends to stop their lives and rally around the Californians; it was up to us to organize our days around what was important to us. This process and reflection have led us to a more mature experience of friendship and freed us from feeling that if we left Puglia, we would lose our friends. Not true. Step 3: What is the point? Once we clarified the friendship issue, we felt more free to examine our motives. Why were we in Italy? It is a significant expense and challenging to balance all the moving parts. Are we here to hang out in Europe without purpose other than wanting to live in another culture? During year two, we began to ask ourselves: what is the point? What are we looking for here? Step 4: Beaches, mountains, culture, travel Being from California, we are used to beach life, so Puglia seemed like a great fit. Some of our local friends call Salento the "California of Italy." It has a similar laid-back feel and intense beach culture during the summer. The culture is also very open-minded, gay-friendly, and inquisitive. Since neither my partner nor I are interested in laying on a beach for hours, we found ourselves seeking out cultural, physical, or travel activities in Puglia rather than accompanying our friends to the beach. We sought places to hike, gyms to train in, historical sites to visit, and other European cities to fly to. Having been to many, if not all, cultural sites within two hours of our base in Puglia at least five or six times, we began to feel ready for something new. Because of our backgrounds, my partner and I are drawn more to the mountains than beaches; we like the challenge of a long hike, discovering a rarely seen panorama, or winter sports associated with mountains. One of the reasons that we chose to live in Italy was to use our place as a base to explore more of Europe. We lived in Puglia near the Brindisi airport and about two hours from Bari, and we took advantage of this by taking a few European trips. But, since we were in the extreme south of Italy, exploring other places by car was challenging. Would somewhere more central hit our target of using our place in Italy as a base? Step 5: Where in Tuscany? We had a lot of questions that rose to the surface during our second year in Puglia; perhaps this made us more open to finally listening to one of our local friends, who had been urging us for years: "Go to Monte Amiata in Tuscany. It is affordable, and you will love it." Though my partner had always been drawn to Tuscany, I had dismissed it, always replying, "We can't afford it." It was true that we could not afford to live in Florence or Siena or the Val d'Orcia. "There is more to Tuscany than those places, and yet you can be near all of them!" our local friend said. So, after finally hearing his words, we booked a flight to Pisa, rented a car and AirBnB for four days, and ended up in the towns in the Monte Amiata region of Tuscany. What we found was: More opportunities for an active lifestyle (hiking, mountain biking, winter sports, gyms, etc). More cultural sites to visit in the immediate area (Florence, Assisi, Siena, Pienza, etc). A more central location in Italy to use our place as a base. We were surprised to hear ourselves say: this is the place we want to be. Step 6: Budget questions Due to California obligations, we would need to live in two places, which constrains our budget. We have student loans, a mortgage, and all the other expenses; we could only make this work if it fits our budget. We found that the Monte Amiata area of Tuscany is more affordable than other parts, and we found housing that cost less than a house in Nardo' that we had considered buying. So, we are taking the step that feels natural, not forced. I will share more as we learn through our experience. Insights. Taking one step at a time, rather than having it all figured out at the beginning, is working for us as we establish our life in Italy. Moving from Puglia to Tuscany isn't something we could have imagined a year ago. Still, circumstances and experiences revealed the logic of such a move, and the doors opened almost by themselves. More next time. Now on sale for $2.99: My book is "Stories from Puglia: Two Californians in Southern Italy." Amazon US: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CRKMKPWF?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_X2WRQ3PTG2ZDD7AVF6GH And also, on Amazon Italy: https://www.amazon.it/gp/product/1913680649/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i0 .

PART 78: It might be interesting to share how we pulled off living in Italy for part of the year. I will post some steps and what we are learning along the way. We love every minute of it, and what was once a dream is our life! We live in Tuscany in the Fall, then back again in the Spring, and in California for the rest of the time (in a previous blog, I explained why we live in Italy only part of the year). Let's explore transportation in Italy. Step 1: Do I need a car while living in Italy? I have lived in Italy twice: first in Rome for eight years as a student, and more recently in Puglia. Now, we are moving to Tuscany. While living in Rome, if someone had asked me whether having a car while living in Italy was necessary, my answer would have been a resounding "no"! Rome is well-connected, and all the places I wanted to go were accessible by train. Besides, Rome is difficult to navigate and impossible to park in. Moreover, as a student, owning, leasing, or renting a car was an expense I could not afford. However, fast forward to our lives in Puglia and now Tuscany, and the answer to the question "Do you need a car while living in Italy?" would be a resounding "yes!" Why so? Let's explore both. Step 2: Geography and purpose. Having or not having a car is influenced by geography and what type of experience one wants in Italy. When I lived in Rome, I resided in a city with a central train hub and could easily access all the stores, museums, and cultural sites I was interested in on foot. I was more interested in exploring major European cities than rural areas or small towns at that time. However, when we moved to Puglia, we realized that having a car would be essential. Although we could still walk to stores, we wanted to experience the wider area, which was only possible with a vehicle. We could visit smaller towns, participate in local festivals, enjoy the beaches, or easily explore new hiking areas. Moreover, we lived in a smaller town that was not well connected by train. As we now plan to move to Tuscany, we have discovered that the most scenic areas outside of Florence and Siena are not well connected by trains. Whether it is Val d'Orcia or Monte Amiato, experiencing it without a car can be quite challenging. But let's go deeper into the advantages and disadvantages of having a car. Step 3: The advantages of not having a car in Italy. The first advantage of having no car in Italy is the expense. Whether buying, leasing, or renting, having a car for months is expensive. Plus, there is the added complication that a non-resident US citizen cannot register a car in Italy. So one can save lots of money by not having a car. Other advantages of being free of a car in Italy include no parking stress, no need to adapt to driving habits in Italy, an efficient train system, and no fear of breakdowns or being stranded somewhere. Last but not least, one avoids the difficult written driving test in Italy, which is a requirement for obtaining an Italian drivers license. Step 4: The disadvantages of not having a car. It is important to note that the disadvantages of not having a car in Italy can vary depending on one's individual travel needs and priorities. For instance, an expat who is considering where to live in Italy will find that not having a car means being restricted to living only in larger towns or cities that are well connected to train lines. However, living in a more populous town or city can have its own advantages and disadvantages. Some readers have pointed out that there are some smaller cities or towns that are along main train routes, which makes traveling by train convenient. Orte, less than an hour from Rome on a main train route, is one of these towns that we looked into. Though we decided that this town wasn't for us, there may be others along major train routes that might be a good fit for someone who decided to not have a car. When we were exploring different places to live in Italy, we considered both larger cities like Bologna and smaller cities like Orte. While both places are on strategic train lines, we found that the larger cities exceeded our housing budget, and some of the smaller cities didn't meet our requirements. Therefore, not having a car can limit one's options when it comes to choosing where to live in Italy. An important disadvantage of not having a car is the limited accessibility to areas with underdeveloped public transportation. In our experience, one requires a car to explore the Val d'Orcia in Tuscany, the magnificent beaches in Puglia, the trulli in the countryside around Alberobello, and the breathtaking views in the Dolomites. Without a car, one misses out on these areas and many other wonderful places. Participating in town feasts and festivals is a vital part of our life in Italy, as it provides us with a glimpse of history, culture, and sometimes religious beliefs. Sometimes we plan to attend a festival in a nearby town, while other times it is a spontaneous decision, as when friends invite us. These festivals are some of the most fantastic experiences we have had in Italy so far, and attending them without a car would be a challenge. Without a car, one also misses out on exploring the smaller, yet incredible towns, such as in the Val d'Orcia or other places that do not have a developed train service. Step 5: The advantages of having a car in Italy. The advantages of owning a car have already been discussed, and they include having more options for where to live, the ability to explore the countryside, beaches, and mountainous regions, and easier access to town feasts and festivals as well as smaller, charming towns. Moreover, there is the idea of spontaneity. In California, it is part of our nature to plan everything ahead of time. We schedule dinners with friends weeks in advance and book activities well beforehand. In Italy, it is not uncommon for a local friend to invite us to a dinner that same night, or to take us to an open-air concert in the nearby town or to watch a procession in another village. Without a car or a ride, we would have to decline such spontaneous invites, unless we had the chance to check the bus or train schedule. Furthermore, there are practical issues like grocery and other shopping; without a car, it can be hard to reach a big mall or larger shopping center and then carry the goods back home. Step 6: The disadvantages of having a car. As mentioned above, owning a car in Italy has some drawbacks, such as the high cost of renting, leasing or buying them. Additionally, one needs to learn the driving styles, speed limits, parking and other regulations in the country. Touristy areas often present parking problems, and it can be time-consuming to find a suitable spot to leave the car. Step 7: Hybrid approach. We considered a hybrid approach of not renting a car for the full three months that we are in Italy, but instead only renting it for a few days each month for exploring and shopping purposes. However, we ultimately decided against this idea because part of the adventure of being in Italy is being spontaneous, and we didn't want to limit ourselves without having transportation readily available. Step 8: Our solution. We discovered that Renault offers a car leasing program wherein one can reserve a car in advance and collect it either in Rome or Milan. In the long run, this option may prove to be more cost-effective compared to the standard car rental agencies. For those interested, this is the site that we use now. https://www.auto-tt.com . Their rates have risen, however. We are exploring other car rental options and I will write about what we discover. Insights: I cannot provide a one size fits all answer to the question of whether one needs a car in Italy as it's a personal decision. However, based on our own experience, we believe that having a car is essential. Our decision was influenced by the place we chose to live in and our reasons for living in Italy. We hope that our experience can assist others in making a decision. More next time. SECOND EDITION NOW ON SALE FOR $2.99!  “She Seduced Me: A Love Affair with Rome.” https://a.co/d/4Bx0Eh3 .  Amazon Italy- my book “Lei mi ha sedotto. Una storia d'amore con Roma”: https://amzn.eu/d/13nuZCL .

PART 79: It might be interesting to share how we pulled off living in Italy for part of the year. I will post some steps and what we are learning along the way. We love every minute of it, and what was once a dream is our life! We live in Tuscany in the Fall, then back again in the Spring, and in California for the rest of the time (in a previous blog, I explained why we live in Italy only part of the year). Let's explore: Why Amiata? Step 1: We explored many areas of Italy to settle down as our base. We lived in Puglia for about 2 years after visiting that area for nearly 10 years. But ultimately, we bought a house in Monte Amiata, Tuscany. It is the perfect area for us. Why? Step 2: Lifestyle Choosing an area to live in involves some soul-searching. What type of life do we want? What are our main interests? How do we want to live every day? My partner and I are interested in an active lifestyle and experiencing history and culture. The Monte Amiata area hits both these marks. Situated on and around a mountain, the towns in the Amiata area have access to ski areas, hiking trails, mountain bike paths, and camping. There are also gyms, running tracks, and indoor sports activities available. I am not interested in a sedentary lifestyle, so access to a gym, sports, and other activities is essential. While living in a great European city gives one ready access to cultural activities and monuments, access to sports activities can be more challenging. Therefore, living in the Monte Amiata area works for us because we have access to outdoor activities, culture, and history. Step 3: Culture "What if we could hop in our car and be in Florence, Siena, Assisi, or Rome in a few hours?" my partner asked one day while we reflected on our experience in Italy. I thought that "what if" was beyond our financial reach. More on that later. In California, I long for the history and culture I experienced in Italy. Exploring a museum of ancient sculpture or admiring a gallery of Renaissance paintings is what my dreams are made of. Having taught high school social studies, art history, and Italian language for 25 years, living in the Monte Amiata area works for me because I can experience Michelangelo's David, the Capitoline museums, and the medieval streets of Assisi within a few hour's drive. What was once my partner's dream has become my own and is finally coming true. Step 4: Friendliness I asked our realtor, "So, will people here have a problem with us being a gay couple?" He shook his head and replied, "They will treat you with the same respect they treat everyone. You will see." Our realtor took us out for drinks with his friends a few days after purchasing our house. The gathering was incredible, with spouses and children joining in, and we felt a strong sense of belonging. Although we are just starting our life in Monte Amiata, the reception has been warm and embracing. Step 5: Geography Geography is a crucial factor that affects our lives. The size of our town or our location in Italy can significantly impact our experiences. When we started our Italian adventure, we chose Puglia as our base, which was an excellent decision. Friends surrounded us, and renting a home made our transition smooth. However, we soon realized that beach life wasn't our cup of tea. We were more inclined to explore the mountains, historical places, and cultural sites in the north. As we became more focused on our interests and goals, we understood the importance of geography. Therefore, we have decided to move to Monte Amiata, which will be our perfect next step. Step 6: Affordability "We could never move to Tuscany; we could never afford it," I remember telling my partner. But the truth is, I had never looked into housing there and was going on stereotypes that I had formed. It wasn't until a local friend in Puglia suggested we check out Monte Amiata that we discovered the area. "I know if you go, you will love it," he said. "And that housing in that area of Tuscany is still affordable. Maybe Americans haven't discovered it yet!" As it turned out, he was right. We had been looking at houses for sale in Nardó, Puglia, in our price range. However, we were pleasantly surprised to find houses in the Monte Amiata area that were in the same price range or even less. We put in an offer on a house in Amiata, and it was accepted. And now, our adventure begins! More next time. Now on sale for $2.99: My book is "Stories from Puglia: Two Californians in Southern Italy." Amazon US: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CRKMKPWF?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_X2WRQ3PTG2ZDD7AVF6GH Amazon Italy- my book "Lei mi ha sedotto. Una storia d'amore con Roma": https://amzn.eu/d/13nuZCL .

PART 80: It might be interesting to share how we pulled off living in Italy for part of the year. I will post some steps and what we are learning along the way. We love every minute of it, and what was once a dream is our life! We live in Tuscany in the Fall, then back again in the Spring, and in California for the rest of the time (in a previous blog, I explained why we live in Italy only part of the year). Step 1: As we explore areas and towns in Italy, we discover some gems worth sharing. Some of these are well-known tourist magnets; others are lesser known but always amazing. This week, let's explore Pienza in Tuscany. Step 2: History Pienza was originally a small village that surrounded the Corsignano castle built in the 8th century. However, the town gained significance due to the birth of Eneo Silvio de Piccolomini in 1405 in the same area. Eneo later became Pope Pius II in 1458. But who was this man? Pope Pius II was a Renaissance man passionate about learning in various areas. He studied literature, poetry, oratory, history, and law at the University of Siena, where he obtained his degree. He wrote on diverse subjects, including history, biography, political science, horse care, and family life. His writings contain vivid descriptions of Tuscan life during the 15th century. Pope Pius II's church career took him to an important church council in Basel and various church missions across Europe. It's worth noting that he spent several years in Germany working with Holy Roman Emperor Frederick III. This fact is significant for some of the architecture found in Pienza today. During his time as Pope, Pius II wanted to make a lasting impact. He chose to renovate the village where he was born and turn it into a model Renaissance city, as the Papacy was then seen as both a worldly and spiritual authority. To accomplish this, Pius hired Bernardo Rossellini, one of the greatest architects in Florence, who designed the brick and travertine patterns in the central piazza, the Cathedral, the Canonical Palace, and the Pope's residence, called the Palazzo Piccolomini. The town was renamed Pienza in honor of Pius himself. Unfortunately, Pius died before the complete plan for the town was realized. He had hoped to lead a crusade but was unable to gather enough support and died before he could board the ship. However, even in its incompleteness, Pienza remains a gem left by Pius II. Step 3: Sights. Piazza Pius II is a beautiful square in Pienza that embodies the Humanist vision of the 'ideal city'. Standing in the middle of this piazza and turning full circle gives one a beautiful view of the Cathedral, Palazzo Piccolomini, and Palazzo Borgia. Piccolomini Palace, once the summer residence of the Piccolomini family, is now a museum that houses a library of rare books, period furniture, paintings, and engravings of Piccolomini family members. It is built around a courtyard that overlooks the city on three sides and an elegant garden overlooking the Tuscan landscape on the fourth side. Visitors can inspect the family's furniture and their collection of treasures. The Cathedral of Pienza is loved by everyone, regardless of religious beliefs. Pius' travels and time spent in Austria and Germany influenced the Gothic architecture and feeling inside the church. The floor slopes towards the altar, and this is not your imagination. The foundations of the church started to shift shortly after it was completed in 1462. The Episcopal Palace, also known as the Borgia Palace, was the Pope's residence in town. It is now an 11-room museum that houses 14th- 16th-century masterpieces and gold work from the 13th- 19th centuries. The Town Hall, or Palazzo Comunale, is the civic palace in Pienza that faces the Cathedral. The church and state are separate yet harmonious in this urban vision. The bottom level features a triple-arched loggia, similar to those of the Palazzo Vecchio in Florence. Step 4: Cool things. Take a leisurely stroll along Corso Rossellino when you visit Pienza. Though the town can be crossed in just 5 minutes, exploring the alleys, shops, and beautiful doors and architecture along the way is much more enjoyable. You may be pleasantly surprised if you slip down an alley towards the D'Orcia Valley. Walking along the city walls will bring you in contact with breathtaking views of Tuscan's Val d'Orcia. The movie "The Gladiator" shows a scene filmed along the ribbony dirt road dotted with cypress trees and surrounded by wheat fields. You can try to find it from the ramparts! Remember to follow your nose in Pienza and visit a cheese shop to sample and purchase some Pecorino di Pienza. This will allow you to not only "see" Pienza but also to "taste" it. Insights: Despite being a popular tourist town, Pienza has retained its charm and remains overwhelmingly beautiful. If you can, stay until the evening when many tourists have gone, and the locals from the town or surrounding areas fill the streets. It's truly a place not to be missed, and its history, panoramas, and architecture will remain in your imagination forever. More next time. Now on sale for $2.99: My book is "Stories from Puglia: Two Californians in Southern Italy." Amazon US: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CRKMKPWF?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_X2WRQ3PTG2ZDD7AVF6GH Amazon Italy- my book "Lei mi ha sedotto. Una storia d'amore con Roma": https://amzn.eu/d/13nuZCL .

Our Italian Adventure: Studying in Rome's Historical Libraries PART 91: It might be interesting to share how we managed to live in Italy for part of the year. I will post some steps and what we are learning along the way. We love every minute of it, and what was once a dream is our life! We live in Tuscany in the Fall, then back again in the Spring, and in California for the rest of the time (in a previous blog, I explained why we live in Italy only part of the year). This week I am in Rome experiencing some of its historical libraries. Step 1: As we explore areas in Italy, we are discovering some gems that are worth sharing. Some of these are well known tourist magnets; others are lesser known but always amazing. This week, let's take a field trip to Rome and explore accessing and studying in Rome's historical libraries. Step 2: Vallicelliana Library Right now, I am sitting in the Biblioteca Vallicelliana, which dates from 1565 and is in the center of Rome, near Piazza Navona and next to Chiesa Nuova. First, some history: The Vallicelliana Library (Biblioteca Vallicelliana) was established in 1565 by the Oratory Fathers, who loved books. It's linked to Saint Philip Neri and the Congregation of the Oratory. The Library was officially recognized by Pope Gregory XIII in 1575. The ancient Library of the Oratory Fathers, also known as the Borromini Hall, was inaugurated in 1644. It has 16 windows, a balcony, and a wooden coffered ceiling. The Library has over 130,000 volumes on Medieval Studies, History of the Church, Rome, and Lazio. There's a separate study room with computer outlets and Wi-Fi access. To enter, one must show ID and fill out a brief form, and then proceed to the reading room, where I am sitting right now. Step 3: Why go to a historical library? There are many reasons to visit a historical library in Rome or elsewhere, but my main focus is to continue my writing practice and be productive while visiting. Rome is magical to me, and every time I visit the city, it feels like a little corner of my life has changed. However, since I know the city so well (having lived here for 8 years in the past), aimlessly wandering the streets doesn't work for me anymore. When I visited Rome last year, I decided that when I stay here for more than a few days, I would make a historical library a part of my daily routine along with the gym. The atmosphere of a place feeds my imagination, and it reflects in my writing. For instance, when I visited the 4th-century house of the soldiers John and Paul (near the Colosseum) years ago, the vibe or spirit of the place brought these two men alive for me and eventually led to my historical novel on their lives and adventures. Similarly, working within a 15th-century library gives me a sense of the flow of history I am part of. And so, as I sit here, I am inspired to write this blog. Step 4: Other historical libraries nearby Last night, I attended a concert at the church of St. Ignatius near the Pantheon. Before the concert, we took a walk around the area and came across a stunning entrance to another historical library. The sign outside indicated that its study room was open. Later, we spotted another library in Piazza Minerva, next to Santa Maria Sopra Minerva. I went inside and asked if I could use their study room, and they said yes, as long as I didn't make any phone calls. So, I found three libraries in the area, but I wonder if there are more nearby. Step 5: Other historical libraries worth visiting Angelica Library (Biblioteca Angelica) The Library of the Senate (Biblioteca del Senato) Biblioteca Casanatense Before showing up at historical libraries in Rome, it's best to check their website or speak with an admin on site. Step 6: Libraries with outdoor reading space There are even libraries in Rome with calm and peaceful outdoor reading spaces. There are too many to name, so I will include the link in Italian here: https://www.bibliotechediroma.it/opac/news/sale-studio-allaperto/33045 Step 7: Study space in museums in Rome The Capitoline Council in Rome recently approved a resolution to establish a network of study rooms within its library system. The study rooms will be civic spaces for studying, reading, and gathering with longer opening hours than traditional library reading rooms. The network will be coordinated by the Library Institution of Rome and will include spaces from Roma Capitale, third parties, and city cultural institutions. All study rooms that join the network will be advertised on a single web portal starting from 2024. One such museum study space is near Piazza Navona at Museo di Roma a Palazzo Braschi ( https://www.informagiovaniroma.it/aule-studio-capitoline/ ). Step 8: Vatican Library? The Vatican Library is one of the most renowned libraries in Rome, and many people desire to visit, explore and browse its collections. However, access to the library is restricted to individuals who are conducting specific research and can provide documentation of their educational status. You can find the criteria for working in the Vatican Library by visiting this website: https://www.vaticanlibrary.va . Insights: Having a purposeful visit to Rome, for me, means not only discovering the city's treasures, but finding a place where I can write, reflect and be inspired. Rome's historical libraries fulfill all three criteria. More next time. Now on sale for $2.99: My book is "Stories from Puglia: Two Californians in Southern Italy." Amazon US: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CRKMKPWF?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_X2WRQ3PTG2ZDD7AVF6GH Amazon Italy- my book "Lei mi ha sedotto. Una storia d'amore con Roma": https://amzn.eu/d/13nuZCL .

PART 82: It might be interesting to share how we pulled off living in Italy for part of the year. I will post some steps and what we are learning along the way. We love every minute of it, and what was once a dream is our life! We live in Tuscany in the Fall, then back again in the Spring, and in California for the rest of the time (in a previous blog, I explained why we live in Italy only part of the year). Let's explore the perks and pitfalls of living in the historical center of a town/city in Italy. Step 1: We lived in Puglia for almost two years, renting an apartment outside the historical center. Then, we recently purchased a home in the historical center of our town in the Monte Amiata area. What have these two experiences revealed to us so far? Step 2: The draw of the historical center (centro storico). The draw of living in the historical center is in the name: because it is historical! Many of us dream of being able to call a 15th-century building one's home. Winding streets, centuries-old historical buildings and the unique atmosphere of living in a historical center draw house hunters like flies to honey, and with good reason. If one is seeking the unique experience of being part of the flow of history embodied in ancient roads, allies, and stone buildings, the historical center is the place to be. Step 3: Differences between historical centers. The historical center in our town in Puglia was one of the more neglected areas. Many empty houses and few businesses created an atmosphere of an overlooked area of the city, which held little attraction to us. But just a few kilometers away was another town, Nardò, with a fantastic and lively historical center; we went there often to sip espresso or explore the churches, cobble streets, and unique buildings. So, the conditions and life of the historical centers of various towns can differ significantly. In our town in Tuscany (Arcidosso), the historical center has excellent panoramic views, narrow winding streets, and stone buildings gathered under the town's towering castle. There is no restricted driving (ZTL zones), but most streets are too narrow for a car to pass. Most residents use the area as their second home since the historical center is quiet during the winter. Yesterday we went to a nearby town here in Tuscany, Santa Fiora. The historical center there is very well maintained, and sections of it are reachable by car, especially the lower part of the historical section. Here again, many houses seemed to be shuddered for the winter. We visited other historical centers off-season, especially in bigger towns with more of a year-round life and full-time residents. Step 4: The challenges of living in the historical center. When deciding to live or not live in this historical center of a town, one should consider all aspects, positive and negative. Some of the challenges we have encountered so far: Parking Although there is no restricted driving in our historical center, the streets are too narrow for a car to pass, so we have to find parking outside the entrance. We knew this coming into the situation, so the situation didn't catch us by surprise. We always find parking in front of one of the gates to the historical part, and then it is about a five-minute walk to the house. If we lived deeper inside the historical center, the walk from car to house would be more challenging. Groceries and supplies Not being able to park in front of or near one's house requires one to carry groceries, bottled water, and bags of pellets (we have a pellet heater) from the car to the house. We have learned to go to the store often to get supplies to carry lighter loads up the path to our house rather than waiting for house necessities to pile up. Carrying big bags of pellets up is never fun, but we are fit, and so far, that is fine. We have been told that pellets and groceries can be delivered to the house for a fee, but we have yet to feel the need to do that. Gas/electricity In some historical centers, including ours, there are no gas lines. We have a gas stove on a propane tank under the sink, and everything else runs on electricity. The consequence of this is that our electricity is constantly shutting off. For example, the eclectic switch flips if we turn on the oven while running hot water or turn on a space heater. Unlike Puglia, where we had gas lines to the house, the hot water heater and stove ran off the gas, so we never ran over our allotted 3 Kilowatts. Reliance on electricity alone and constantly losing power because of overuse was something we didn't expect. Our next steps are to switch to lower-consuming appliances, address the heating issue in the house with low energy requirements, and apply for more kilowatts to meet our immediate needs. Restrictions on outside work There are more restrictions on modifying a building, especially externally, in the historical center than in other parts of town. Creating a new window, changing an entrance door, or installing solar heating may be more heavily regulated in this historical center; such changes, in fact, may not be possible at all. A good realtor is an excellent source of information in this area. Garbage collection In Puglia, our trash was collected on our doorstep: Organico one day, paper the next, and mixed garbage afterward. Each day of the week was designated as a specific pick-up day. Our historical center has no house trash pick up, but one must deposit the different types of trash in large bins nearby. This can be a hassle for some, but we actually prefer it. Rather than having trash pile up as we wait for the specific pick-up day, we just put it in the designated dumpster while driving to the gym in the morning. This may seem to be a hassle for some, but it works better for us. Step 5: Which is right for me? It is impossible to say whether living in the historical center is suitable for someone or not. It depends on what type of experience one wants in Italy, whether one can carry supplies back and forth, what kind of house one wants, and a million other particular questions unique to each person seeking to establish a life in Italy. Step 6: What we have learned. We decided that the historical center is the place for us because we have all the conveniences we are accustomed to in California. Still, in Italy, we want a different experience. So far, lugging supplies up and down is not a big deal; we have to make sure that every trip to our car counts and that we always bring something each way. We are finding solutions to the lack of access to natural gas, lower energy solutions to heating, and lower consumption appliances. In this way, we are coming to adjust to and appreciate living within walls that breathe history. More next time. Now on sale for $2.99: My book is "Stories from Puglia: Two Californians in Southern Italy." Amazon US: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CRKMKPWF?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_X2WRQ3PTG2ZDD7AVF6GH Amazon Italy- my book "Lei mi ha sedotto. Una storia d'amore con Roma": https://amzn.eu/d/13nuZCL .

PART 81: It might be interesting to share how we pulled off living in Italy for part of the year. I will post some steps we took. We live in Puglia in the Spring and then back again in the Fall. Step 1: As we explore towns in Italy, we discover some gems worth sharing. Some of these are well-known tourist magnets; others are lesser known but always amazing. This week, let's explore the Abbey of Sant'Antimo in Tuscany. Step 2: History I have a weakness for Romanesque architecture, especially when it comes to churches. When some local friends suggested that we visit the Abbey of Sant'Antimo, claiming it is one of the most beautiful examples of Romanesque architecture in Italy, we decided to jump in our car and head towards Montalcino, which is the area in which the Abbey is found. Italy's buildings, monuments, and sculptures are often intertwined with stories; some are historical, and others are legends. The same is true for Sant'Antimo. According to history/legend, the abbey dates from the time of Charlemagne. The story is that Charlemagne and his court were returning from Rome along the Via Francigena and decided to camp on Monte Amiata. When the plague began spreading among the locals and his men, Charlemagne prayed and asked for help. That night, he had a dream in which he was told to make an infusion with wine and a specific grass growing in that area; the angel in the dream said to him that the soldiers who drank this would be cured. He believed in his dream, followed the instructions, and the plague subsided. This particular grass, even today, is known as "Carolina." The legend continues and holds that Charlemagne had a church built in the area of the Abbey in 781 in thanksgiving for his men being saved from the plague. On the right side of the church, in fact, is the 'Carolingian chapel,' perhaps the first abbey church. 1118 was the year that construction work started on the Abbey, leading to its current appearance. The Abbey is built of travertine stone, one of the most beautiful ornamental stones used in the Romanesque period. The Abbey was restored to being a place of spiritual importance only recently, thanks to the work of a community of Canons Regular, which settled here in 1992. These monks left some years later, and now a community of sisters lives at the monastery. Step 3: Sights. The church: When I entered the Abbey church for the first time, I noticed that there was no gold and no abundance of statues or paintings. Shafts of sunlight pierce the open spaces created by golden stone soaring towards the heavens, framing a medieval crucifix dating from the 12th century. Another wooden sculpture from around 1260 representing the 'Madonna with Holy Child Enthroned' rests against the right wall. The interior consists of three naves, round arches resting on columns, and capitals carved with geometrical, human, animal, and flower motifs. A quiet silence circulates inside the church among walls and stone columns with a few frescoes depicting various saints. What is unique about this Abbey church is the feeling. History and spirituality are palpable here, and attending a Sunday service brought it alive. Garden: Saint Hildegard's Garden is not to be missed (at least during the Spring and Summer. It is closed during the Winter). Hildegard was a Benedictine abbess born in 1098 and is one of the most influential female figures of the Middle Ages. She studied how to use nature in medicine and healing; the garden named after her and the healing herbs she used are growing here. It is a beautiful, peaceful place. Pharmacy: The Abbey pharmacy is set up in the ancient treasury room, where one can purchase food products made according to the recipes of the centuries-old monastic herbal tradition, body care products made with natural essences and medicinal herbs, Abbey beer as well as a liquor (amaro) made from Erba Carolina, a herb whose origins are intertwined with the legend of the foundation of the Abbey. Step 4: Cool things. The Abbey has many cultural events, from Gregorian chant to author presentations. They have a website in Italian, which one can also navigate by using Google Translate: https://www.antimo.it The Abbey is worth a visit. We go every time we are in the area because it is like stepping into a different world, and when we come out again, we take a bit of its peace with us. Insights: Listening to the advice of local friends has led us to discover incredible places and experiences. The Abbey of Sant'Antimo was not on our radar until our friend said, "You must go!" We listened and were glad we did. More next time. In my book "She Seduced Me: A Love Affair with Rome," I bring the reader into the stories, past and present, that make the city unique. Amazon US: https://www.amazon.com/She-Seduced-Me-Love-Affair-ebook/dp/B09885RSZZ/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr= . And also, on Amazon Italy, https://amzn.eu/d/eUKgXA1

PART 85: It might be interesting to share how we pulled off living in Italy for part of the year. I will post some steps and what we are learning along the way. We love every minute of it, and what was once a dream is our life! We live in Tuscany in the Fall, then back again in the Spring, and in California for the rest of the time (in a previous blog, I explained why we live in Italy only part of the year). Step 1: As we settle into our life in Italy, sometimes our cultural backgrounds influence our experiences, and we may even find ourselves complaining that life in Italy is not unfolding as expected. This week, let's explore managing our expectations. Step 2: Expectations are a part of our daily lives. Once we become used to something, we often come to expect it. For instance, I expect my local supermarket to be open late, my gym to be open every day of the week, and my local Costco to stock the large bulk items I need. Similarly, I expect quick and courteous service when I visit a government or county office. I anticipate fast, accurate, and timely service in any transaction or human exchange. Step 3: Cultural differences and appreciation Carrying expectations from my culture to life in Italy can damage the joy of the adventure and disrupt one's time living in another country. In my previous blog posts, I have shared some examples of the "ugly American" behavior that I have either witnessed or been a part of. Using one's own culture, food, or viewpoint as the standard to evaluate another culture, people, or country reinforces the ugly stereotype of someone who believes that they are always right and everyone else is wrong. We may have all encountered people like that, and we know how unpleasant it can be to be around such people. So, how can we avoid becoming an "Ugly Whatever"? The answer is to manage our expectations. Step 4: Steps to managing expectations When I moved to Italy, I quickly realized that different doesn't necessarily mean better or worse. Just because someone in another country drives, cooks, speaks, or behaves differently from what I am used to, it does not mean that my way is superior. It is just different. The second step was to learn from the Italian culture. Most of my local friends are spontaneous. They would suggest going out for pizza and figure out the details later. I, on the other hand, usually prefer to plan ahead of time. However, I have come to appreciate the importance of relationships over schedules. The third step was to recognize that sometimes other cultures do things better than my own. For instance, when I first moved to Rome, I was frustrated by the time it took to shop for groceries. I couldn't understand why people went to different shops for different items instead of doing everything in one go at a supermarket. However, I have come to appreciate the quality of food and the relationships one forms by shopping at small, local stores. The fourth step was accepting that some cultural practices are imperfect, and I needed to learn how to work within the system. The bureaucracy involved in getting things done or improved at a government agency in Italy can be challenging. However, developing relationships with locals and learning to navigate the system has helped me get things done. Step 5: Letting go Letting go of expectations can be liberating. Sometimes, tasks that were meant to be completed within three days, end up taking ten days instead. It's up to me whether I get frustrated by this or accept it as part of the adventure. When I immerse myself in a different culture without judging it from my own perspective, I open myself up to new experiences. A fascinating religious procession, an ancient cultural festival, or a celebration of a historical event can become things that I no longer experience as a spectator but as a participant. However, this is only possible if I let go of my expectations. More next time. SECOND EDITION NOW ON SALE FOR $2.99!  “She Seduced Me: A Love Affair with Rome.” https://a.co/d/4Bx0Eh3 .  Amazon Italy- my book “Lei mi ha sedotto. Una storia d'amore con Roma”: https://amzn.eu/d/13nuZCL .

PART 86: It might be interesting to share how we pulled off living in Italy for part of the year. I will post some steps and what we are learning along the way. We love every minute of it, and what was once a dream is our life! We live in Tuscany in the Fall, then back again in the Spring, and in California for the rest of the time (in a previous blog, I explained why we live in Italy only part of the year). Let's explore what happened when we returned to Italy recently. Two news organizations, Cusano News and Vatican Radio, invited me in for an interview about my book "She Seduced Me: A Love Affair with Rome." Step 1: Nerves My Italian is OK on some days and flows on others. I don't know why it flows on one occasion, and on others, I stumble. I never felt confident enough in the language to engage in public speaking. Still, when Cusano News and Vatican Radio invited me for an interview, I had to put my fears aside and accept the adventure. Step 2: What is Cusano News? Cusano News is a news organization located in Rome at Cusano University (Università degli Studi "Niccolò Cusano"). Their mission is to provide objective news coverage of global events, with programs dedicated to news, politics, and sports. Additionally, they offer programs that provide insights into culture, entertainment, technology, and science. Step 3: My experience at Cusano I took a taxi to the Cusano campus and was impressed by the modern buildings, academic atmosphere, and the friendliness of everyone I encountered. Cusano News isn't directly connected to the university and is run as a separate entity, though both share space on campus. My interviewer, Gabriele, welcomed me and gave me a tour of the state-of-the-art broadcasting rooms and journalist work areas. He also introduced me to some of his colleagues. We had a few minutes before the live broadcast, and I expressed my nervousness. However, he helped me relax when he talked about his love for Agatha Christie (who I'm a huge fan of) and his cat, Miss Marple. We were then taken to the newsroom, where we did a camera and audio check, and before I knew it, we were live! Gabriele did an excellent job of leading the interview. We discussed several topics, including literature, education, and what it's like to be an author. During the first part of the interview, I was nervous and struggled to find my words. However, I eventually hit my stride and passionately shared my thoughts on education, history, and culture. The interview lasted about 20 minutes and flew by so quickly! Afterward, I told Gabriele about our move from Puglia to Tuscany and that there would undoubtedly be more stories to tell. We agreed to do a follow-up interview in the future. The experience of being interviewed by Cusano News was incredible, and I am incredibly grateful for the opportunity. Step 4: Vatican Radio I was amazed when Eliana from Vatican Radio invited me for an interview on her podcast about Rome's history, culture, and faith experience. Being interviewed by the Vatican on any topic is a privilege; for a writer, it can be a once-in-a-lifetime experience. She had read my book about Rome, which is now published in Italian (Lei me ha sedotto: Un rapporto d'amore con Roma), and wanted the interview to focus on the stories in the book. Step 5: The questions beforehand Neither Cusano News nor Vatican Radio revealed the interview questions to me beforehand, so I had to think on my feet. However, the Vatican podcast is not live, so Eliana reassured me that she would edit the interview, and if I could not think of a word or phrase, she could pause, give me some help, and then remove the pause. This made me feel more confident. Step 6: The experience at Vatican Radio During my visit to Vatican Radio, I had the opportunity to tour the Renaissance building, meet other journalists, and explore the broadcasting facilities. My interviewer, Eliana, then led me outside to show me stunning views of Castel Sant'Angelo. I couldn't believe I was lucky enough to be there and felt grateful for the experience. Eliana had done her research and found some interesting stories in my book that she wanted to expand upon. The interview felt more like a conversation between two people who had read the same book. At one point, I almost forgot that I was the author. We discussed what makes the stories of Rome unique, what brings history alive, my experience of working with the homeless at a shelter run by Mother Teresa's sisters, and my favorite spot in the city. As the interview ended, I was surprised to discover that 20 minutes had passed. Eliana was an excellent interviewer - knowledgeable, professional, and friendly. Step 7: Compare? My experiences at Cusano News and Vatican Radio were so unique that I find it difficult to compare them. Gabriele and Eliana were fantastic interviewers who understood my nervousness and led me through the interview with a calming presence and interesting questions. They are both skilled at getting someone to talk about what they are interested in and presenting it in a professional and polished way. I am incredibly grateful for both experiences, which were equally amazing. Step 8: The links Cusano News: https://youtu.be/zZWsPgBLwD4?si=H1bYecYGpUV_bP3r Vatican Radio: https://www.vaticannews.va/it/podcast/rvi-programmi/il-sampietrino/2024/02/il-sampietrino-06-02-2024.html Insights: Being invited to be interviewed on a news program in Italy was something that I never dreamed of when I wrote the first words of my first book, "As I lay awake at night flooded with thoughts of the past, I wonder if this is what happens in middle age: memories become as important as the present…" (Undeniable Longing). Those thoughts and those memories culminated in these two interviews. Whether they lead to other interviews or not, both are the pinnacle of my life as a writer. More next time. Now on sale for $2.99: My book is "Stories from Puglia: Two Californians in Southern Italy." Amazon US: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CRKMKPWF?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_X2WRQ3PTG2ZDD7AVF6GH Amazon Italy- my book "Lei mi ha sedotto. Una storia d'amore con Roma": https://amzn.eu/d/13nuZCL .